it all started with my boyfriend from flordia. She said that my actions(which was spending the night at my BFFS house and sharing a sleeping bag with him; nothing happened." My mom then said that i wasn't being punished enough... so she didn't let me go to homecoming. What she had done was pop a whole bunch of depression pills and pain pills. 150 i was told. Then she had to go to ICU so she wouldn't digest it. When she did this she never told me, and when she was in the hospital, she led me to belive it was for stomache proplems. When she got home(i was living w/ Gram) she blamed the whole thing on me and said i argued and this summer was so stressful with my BF. Now i'm living with my aunt, and my mom wants me to come home, but i don't want to... that basically the story in short... i can e-mail you if you want a very discriptive version.. Thanks in advance!!
2006-11-07 10:53:31 · 22 answers · asked by miss miserable 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your mom has a great many more problems than just you for her to try and take her own life. Children are a loan from God, they are not ours to possess, we are entrusted with them to care, teach, love and guide them. I don't know how old you are but it was not a wonderful idea to share a sleeping bag with the boyfriend wheter anything happened or not. And sometimes punishment is not always the cure; I hope that your old enough to understand what you do in your private life is something you have to live with for a very long time, It is much easier to take pride in yourself if you do what you know is right. But In the event that you make a mistake please know that someone will still care and love you anyway. Your mother is ill, blaming you was a mistake, I hope that you care enough to give her another chance and try and help her. We are all human we all make mistakes and when we are the most confused a prayer and an open mind will sometimes provide a way. I wish I could help you and your mother, this as all things shall pass and leave you both stronger.
2006-11-07 11:07:12 · answer #1 · answered by lseward2005 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Blaming another person for our problems is so very common. But, I assure you that shutting your Mom out completely won't help you or her in the long run. You will only regret it when you get older. Your Mom may actually need your help right now. This does not mean you have to move back in, but by all means, get some counseling for the two of you so this can be worked out. There must be a lot of negative emotions lingering here and they should be sorted through. They will never just go away. Heaven forbid something did happen to your Mother and you didn't get a second chance to help her, to listen to her, to show her that it wasn't your fault and that she should take responsibility for her own actions. Once the healing begins, love can grow from there. Good luck!
2006-11-07 11:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried sitting down with her and telling her how you feel? Maybe you should tell her how much you love her and how much you need her in your life. Be her best friend and let her know she is not alone and she has someone who loves her very much. People who are suicidal are often lonely and feel useless or unloved. Some medications have the effect of depression. If you watch some commercial on T.V for meds, At the end they say "if you have thoughts of suicide stop taking the medication and see a doctor right away". It could just be her reaction to medicine. Have her see a doctor. Tell the doctor what meds she is taking and her thighs of suicide. Pray for her
2016-05-22 08:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not let your mom put a guilt trip on you.
I hope that your aunt is willing to let you stay with her.
You shouldn't be living with your mom. She is trying to drag you down because she doesn't want you to be happy. She needs major help, I hope that she is getting some kind of help. She has major issues stemming with you and she needs to talk to someone about them.
Until she does that, stay far away from her for your sake.
Be strong
2006-11-07 11:04:44 · answer #4 · answered by kitt_kattkitt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something Specially
For You
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all.
2006-11-07 11:25:53 · answer #5 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your mother has real problems, if I were you I'd stay well clear. I don't know all the ins and outs but u have to think of your own mental health, living with your mother would not be good for you and might not be good for her either. Stay with your aunt stay sane it's possible your mother is jealous of u or may be she is just trying to hard to control u. I really don't know, if u want to tell me more please email.
2006-11-07 11:03:25 · answer #6 · answered by kennyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you are living in a safe home
and that your mother is living with less stress.
She can blame you, yes, but those are words,
thoughts, and excuses. She swallowed the pills.
She blames you to use it as a weapon to control you,
and as an excuse to herself that she lost control.
You tell your mother that you are happy as you are,
that you are taking care of yourself in doing so,
and you hope she is doing the same.
Leave her, and yourself some hope for tomorrow.
2006-11-07 10:59:03 · answer #7 · answered by dj_of_raleigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not something that can be easily solved through yahoo.com. Your mom needs professional help. It is also important for you to talk to a doctor about what is going on.
People who talk about suicide reveal depression in one way or another.
Guido
2006-11-07 10:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is trying to control you and will try for the rest of your life with drama and guilt. If she wins now it will only get more dramatic. Stay away from her. She sounds mentally unbalanced and a raving drama queen. Get away as soon as you can or she will drag you down with her.
2006-11-07 10:57:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its very hard to understand ..a normal mother would never say a bad thing like that to her child....she has a problem and im 99%shure its not you...its her ...she has a mental illness that needs to be looked at ...maybe go to a familly therapist would help ...i would need to know her age...it may be helpfull in understanding the cause...you can contact me if you want
2006-11-07 11:02:57 · answer #10 · answered by acierman2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋