2006-11-07 10:50:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, you have it wrong. you need to have confidence in yourself and that will show. It's not that girls want it, it is that it makes you a more appealing person. no one wants to be with "kick me" dude, you know?
2006-11-07 10:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Confidence is developed and it's internal. When you feel confident and self assured it will show. Being rejected by women doesn't damage yourself confidence if it was strong to begin with. What have you done that you are proud of?. What makes you a worthwhile human being? How do you feel about yourself? These are all things that show your confidence in yourself. They are what makes you strong. If you feel that the world is a better place because you are in it, that will show not just to women but to everyone who meets you.
2006-11-07 19:02:28 · answer #2 · answered by Lynn K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the times when we do succeed.
If you want to get anywhere in life, prepared to be rufused and rejected a few times.
Don't take it so personally. Maybe ur just not the type they're looking for, has nothing to do with you personally, after all, they don't even know you.
Plus, for the ones that really give it to you during a rejection, trust me, these aren't worth it, if they have any sense of respect for their fellow human being, they wouldn't be like that. Feel sorry for them, it's the only place that they feel bigger than you.
Whatever it is though, take it in stride. Just don't seem desperate, don't single out someone as a target. Have fun. party hard. It's your night, your party. Eventually you find you have an audience, and then just say hi to that girl who has been laughing at your jokes, giving you looks at the corner of her eyes, smiling at you, whispering to her friends, and looks hot in that thing she's wearing... there... she's the one!
Good luck.
2006-11-07 18:59:53 · answer #3 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to have a thick skin. And truly believe your a good person that people should be lucky to know and be with. You have to get over the confidence issues with yourself before you can appear confident to others.
2006-11-07 18:53:30 · answer #4 · answered by acvader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all there must be a reason you have been rejected and I do not think it was your low confidence level ...find out what it is and fix it ....only if it is something minor like your breathe or hair...Do not change who you are for them.
2006-11-07 18:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to not really care if they reject you. if they do, then they were not worthy of you. just go be yourself and forget about them. when the time is right, she will come. or so i am told. i'm 38 now and still waiting for the bus load of cheerleaders. that hasn't happened yet.
2006-11-07 19:00:08 · answer #6 · answered by dread pirate lavenderbeard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and if you have to do more than that then they don't like you. They like who you're tring to be. Keep trying and maybe... some girl might just come up to you.
2006-11-07 18:53:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
.........yuh must be looking in the wrong place's!....Check out a yahoo friendship or dating site, use common sense, and find yuh self a nice girl there.......
2006-11-07 18:56:35 · answer #8 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT WILL BE OK WHEN THE RIGHT ONE COMES ALONG
2006-11-07 18:53:57 · answer #9 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋