I recently went on a date with a young lady, she had advised me that she used to do Porn Movies, I kind of think she still does, but thats besides the point, she says she haven't did any in over a year and she is looking to start a meaningful relationship, with someone who can accept her past, now I'm no angel neither but the fact is I wasn't showing my goods on Video for the world to see. She is extremely sexy and intelligent we have been out on a couple of dates but I haven't even kissed her yet....Should I take her serious and consider a relationship with her or should I just hit and run......Oh..... either way I'm gonna hit it.
2006-11-07 10:50:14 · 24 answers · asked by Hi 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok ladies way to step up.....I expected to hear more from the fellas, and just to let you know I keep the condems on me at all times...Well not literally on me...you know what I mean.
2006-11-07 11:14:41 · update #1
Porn stars are people. Maybe they did something they regret and maybe they are happy they made a lot of money. Whatever. If you think you can resolve this issue in your head then I would cultivate her friendship. If you cannot see her as someone to build a relationship then better not get any further into it than you are now. I am sure she has had difficulties trying to have a special man in her life because most men are not than innocent but they seem to want their women to be.
Okay, if you "hit it" I would absolutely wear a couple of condoms maybe put three on top of each other.
2006-11-07 10:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-18 19:25:09 · answer #2 · answered by Kermit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dated A Pornstar
2017-01-12 16:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she really has given it up, then I think you should consider a relationship as no-one should be judged by their past. If, however she is still doing them as you suspect, then maybe you could ask her to give it all up for you. However it's a little concerning that you want to "hit" either way. Surely if you really like her enough to consider a relationship, a little more respect would be appropriate. Maybe you are just considering it, because going out with her would be another trophy to brag about to all your pals? Maybe I've missed the mark, but either way, just discuss your feelings with her and and with any luck you might discover that you've met the woman of your dreams.
2006-11-07 10:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by salstick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that's a rotten way to think on your behalf. Give the girl a chance, you don't know the situation she might have been in when she started that. Maybe it's all she knows how to do. Find out where shes working, and than maybe you could give her enough confidence to get a better job. Sounds like she doesn't think very highly of herself. She probably thinks that's the only job she's worth.And BE NICE!
2006-11-07 11:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by Sandyspacecase 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well since your gonna hit it anyway u might want to wear protection.Plus pray it doesn't break. Your mind is already made up about her by your response.So why don't u just find someone that u will respect and don't put your life on the line.Good luck..I have a feeling you'll need it.
2006-11-07 10:54:52 · answer #6 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the girl a chance. Just because she didn't have the regular 9-5 like most of us, doesn't mean she's a bad person. I think you should give her a chance. Remember, she was honest w/you. She didn't have to tell you, but she wanted to be honest.
See where I'm goin w/this?
2006-11-07 10:55:56 · answer #7 · answered by TRULEY MADLY DEEPLEY 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like her, why not?
But make sure you're comfortable with the fact that she has done this.
If you take this relationship on, you cant ever pull this out of your *** in an argument, because you knew about it before you got involved.
Think carefully, and good luck!
2006-11-07 10:53:37 · answer #8 · answered by kaye t 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you do so called "Hit it" then make sure u use protection because there are alot of std's and diseases going around which i'm sure you don't wanna get. That can be very devastating so be safe and if she wants the relationship then fine but other than that...use protection...
2006-11-07 10:55:36 · answer #9 · answered by iluvashtonkutcher676 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I say dont go there but If you feel the need to "hit it" do so just make sure you wear a raincoat.
2006-11-07 10:54:36 · answer #10 · answered by Binky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋