2006-11-07 10:41:04 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
have him arrested and never see him again except in court
2006-11-07 10:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by goodtimesgladly 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If he has lost respect for you enough to strike you then your relationship is over .. no matter how much you "think" you love him or that he wont do it again.
The relationship changed the day he did that to you and NOTHING that you did or said brought it on dear
IF you continue to stay in the relationship well that thought and question is always there and next time you might not be so lucky .
He says he wont but he will ... A person has real anger management issues when they lower themselves to strike the one that they say they love.
You would be best to remove yourself either by leaving him or getting him to leave you. You might even have to do something legal if he is going to be nasty about it .
I wish you all the best
2006-11-07 15:22:24 · answer #2 · answered by MrsDave 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He hit you once shamed on him he hit you again shamed on you for letting it happened again. If you still love him and think he deserve another chance. Give him the benefit of doubts. If this happened for the second time I would just leave. No woman deserve to be hit. If he hits you while dating imagine how he would be afte marriage. If he truely love you he would handle his anger better. All has been said about what you outta do by other people who left you comment. It's all up to you now. If you want respect from him you gotta give some respect for yourself first.
2006-11-07 18:33:15 · answer #3 · answered by uniqaznmeg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Didn't you ask this question before? If he already promised not to do it again, and then did it again, you have your answer.
I would not believe him unless I saw some serious steps about wanting to change. For example, finding a counselor or psychiatrist and making some therapy appointments would help. If he doesn't seem to be doing anything in his life that backs up his promises to change, get out and fast. Maybe he hit you this time, but later he might kill you.
2006-11-08 13:30:11 · answer #4 · answered by drshorty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just your question alone shows it would be different for some reason if the guy weren't good looking. If he were in an alley wearing a mask and robbed you at knife point and then beat you would it make a difference if he were good looking or not? Assault is assault regardless of race, creed, religion, and yes, even looks.
The problem at this point doesn't lie with him hitting you but you even asking if you should put up with it because he is good looking. Have him arrested and teach his good looking *** a lesson.
2006-11-07 11:46:00 · answer #5 · answered by Braveheart 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run for your life he might be going psycho. Take kung-fu or karate. A can of mase might not be a bad idea as well. Maybe a baseball bat or golf club is good too. What I'm trying to say is get away from him. I mean all communication. Never to see his face again. And you need something to defend yourself just incase he comes after you. Oh yeah dont forget 911. Good luck and dont forget too look in the back seat of your car everytime you get in. HE MIGHT BE THERE!
2006-11-07 10:50:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with a lot of the others saying that its likely he will hit you again and its never ok to hit even if he apolgised afterwards. I would suggest you chat to a friend/doctor/family member that can help you make the changes you need to make.
take care
2006-11-07 23:24:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did it once, he'll do it again. C'mon, don't be stupid! You KNOW that ANYONE who will hit someone they care for is a waste of oxygen! Get rid of him now before it gets worse!
PS: What the heck does him being sexy have to do with anything? An ****** is an ******, no matter what he pretends to be!
2006-11-07 10:50:35 · answer #8 · answered by fergy_1967 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ditch the sexy boyfriend. If he has already hit you once, there will be another time sooner or later. Never let it happen again, protect yourself. Leave him.
He does not respect you.'
2006-11-07 10:49:54 · answer #9 · answered by Bluealt 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get out now!!!!!!!!! If it happened once, it'll happen again and will probably be worse next time. Why did you use the word "sexy"? Is that supposed to excuse his behaviour? Who cares if he's sexy? He's abusive!!!!! Leave now!!!!
2006-11-10 03:26:18 · answer #10 · answered by Am_I_Bluffin'?? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no excuse for him hitting you. Put the jerk in jail and move on to someone who treats you better! I don't care how sexy he is, it's not worth getting hit. Get out now!
2006-11-07 10:49:45 · answer #11 · answered by jadedgirl149 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋