My mom has had bone cancer for over a year , it started in her hand and last month she did scan , and the cancer has spread in all her body ... she did chemo and radiation and the doctor said that nothing else we could do cuz its too late ...
Plz anyone , tell me any possible way to help my mom .. i dont wanna lose her , she is everything to me in this life , i cry day and night . Plz help me if u know any doctor that can cure Bone Cancer ...
my email is
Jalal661983@yahoo.co.uk
Plz pray for my mom ...
2006-11-07 10:20:35 · 13 answers · asked by jalal661983 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
Thank you very much all of you ... I will beleive in god and that he can make miracles ... Thank u for ur support .. :(
2006-11-07 18:39:04 · update #1
First of all let me say how sorry I am to hear about your mother. My mother was also EVERYTHING to me in life. I was 32 yrs old with 2 kids but felt like a little girl when I found out my mom was going to pass away with cancer. It's truly a very difficult thing to go through and maybe the most difficult you ever experience. However, unfortunately we have no control over these types of things. The drs can only do what medical science has allowed them knowledge to do. Studies are being done everyday and new cures are coming to light everyday..but we just don't know exactly when they will occur. The best thing to do is spend "quality" time with your mom, make special memories, and let her know how much you love her and appreciate her while she is still here. She may not be showing it but she is carrying a very difficult burden herself just knowing that she will have to leave you and trying to make it not so hard on you. You will at least have some time to make quality time and memories with her. So many ppl don't get that chance. My prayers are with you both. I have been there and done that so I know EXACTLY what you are feeling and going through. I wish I could say more to help...but there just isn't anything else to I could say. God Bless and take care of you both. It will help ALOT if you research the specific bone cancer she has and study up on it. That in itself can give you some relief in understanding the disease. Good luck!
2006-11-07 10:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by SeaMistress 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will pray for your mum. I am finishing my cancer treatments tomorrow. I'd appreciate your prayers too (I'm 22)
I know that the doctors at Anderson Hospital in Texas are very good. If you aren't sure that her treatment is very good, maybe look into Angel flights (free flights to cancer hospitals for cancer patients) and see if there is something more that can be done.
And remember, God loves your mom even more than you do, he loves you too. I will pray that he blesses you both during and after the treatments are done.
2006-11-09 05:42:31 · answer #2 · answered by Morgan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was 15 my mom was diagnosed with cancer. It spread all over her body. She under went all of the treatments and nothing work. The doctors gave up hope. She didnt like to her that. So what we di for my mom was help her do everything that she wanted. Like she was never sick. She was happy for that last part of her life. I know its hard to hear but it was almost a relife when she passed away bucause she was in so much pain. You could tell it was hard for her to get out of bed, even eat. I wish the best for for your mom and hope she gets well. Just let her know how much you love her everyday. The best hospital in the world for cancer treatment is the Cleveland clinic in cleveland Ohio. They try all the newest treatments there.
2006-11-08 01:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by tinybudman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear about your mother and what you are going through. I will pray for both of you. I wish I knew of a doctor to help you. But unfortunately I don't. Spend as much time with her and cherish each moment. Miracles do happen. I myself lost my mother when I was 15 she had diabetes and had a massive stroke. She lived for 12 days following the stroke. So I know how difficult it is to be helpless. Keep your head up and pray. Keep the faith. Miracles really do happen. You are both in my prayers.
2006-11-08 01:14:06 · answer #4 · answered by Dana A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for you and your mom. My husband was diagnosed with lung cancer March 20th He passed June 6th. He was treated with radiation chemo gamma knife procedure and the drug tarceva.You might be able to get her in a clincal trial that tests new drugs. In the mean time spend as much time with her you can Tell her how much you love her take her to her favorite places visit friends (we threw cook outs and parties for my husband so he could see all his friends and family took alot of pictures) bring her favorite foods do the things she likes to do. Also get on the internet and do research there is alot of information out there. Ill pray for you and your mom. Be strong and hang in there.
2006-11-09 05:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by crumcake422 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom died of breast cancer almost two months ago.
We knew she was dying, although the doc's didn't tell her that. I think she knew as well. I just wished that I had talked a little bit more about our time together and let her know that she was a great mother and how I appreciated everything that she had ever done for me. Maybe I was in deniel at the time, but looking back I wish I had said something to her.
2006-11-07 13:49:05 · answer #6 · answered by hrmom02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry....the best advice I can give you is to laugh, cry,confide in your mother about anything and spend as much time as possible.....these are the days you will remember the rest of your life..so make the most of them. If you can get a video camera and have your mother say some special things that you can record...you can watch it to help your grief or you can save it and show your children what a great grandmother they had.
2006-11-07 10:25:36 · answer #7 · answered by kndykisz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unfortuantely i think it just may be time, and i know how hard it is. my grandma died of pancreatic cancer and i didnt want her to die, but when she did we all knew she was in a better place.\maybe get a few other recommendations from other clinics, but other than that, love her and spend as much time as you can with her, and i will pray for her.
i am so sorry to hear this and i can definitly smpathize.
2006-11-07 11:24:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry for what you are going through and what you will go through . i wish i knew how to ease your pain and heal your mom , but unfortunetly some cancers cant be cured . spend every minute you can with your mom , tell her you love her , be there for her. you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers......
2006-11-07 12:38:13 · answer #9 · answered by sindi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have my prayers and my sympathies, I lost my mother to bone cancer too.
2006-11-07 10:22:46 · answer #10 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋