my mom brought her frist boyfriend over right now and its so weird hes nice nad everything but hello i dont want to meet him if i would have told her that she would have acted like a big drama queen its so crazy i dont really know what im feeling any one been in myshoes how was it and how did u act?
2006-11-07 10:07:25 · 9 answers · asked by lost_in_love_still 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Stop being such a baby and say "hi" to the guy. He may not be your father, but if your parents aren't together, there's no reason why she shouldn't or can't see him.
2006-11-07 10:11:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You usually don't know how you feel, if you have always only known your parents to be together.
But try and understand that we all have a right to life!! Try and be happy for your mom. You can't expect her to curl up and stop living!! Who knows, she might go through 1000 bf's, but then again, she might marry the one you seem to think is nice. :-)
BUt try and find that soft spot in your heart for mom and her happiness ok, cause I'm sure she tried to be the best mom she could for you while you were growing.
My dads first gf I met, I automatically hated her, cause she was all over him like a slut! Well guess what?? They've now been married 32 years!!
Just try and be yourself, but no nned to turn into a drama queen yourself. lol
2006-11-07 10:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It must be strange to meet someone that is not your father and you probably feel awarkard but it sounds like the guy is decent so give your mom some support and I hope she is supportive of you too !
2006-11-07 10:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be calm. Be polite. Be poised. Act like a mature adult. Your mother will love you even more and the new boyfriend will be impressed. Good luck, hon. You can do it.
2006-11-07 10:29:13 · answer #4 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it has to be certainly akward but you have to acceptet it keep on your mind that your mom need also happiness i know that's not easy but try it we all say that and give advise but when it happens to us i mean when our mom have boyfriend that's will make us uncomftorble so
2006-11-07 18:51:58 · answer #5 · answered by supernolwen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be polite - you aren't dating him - mom is. It may be temporary, it may not be. Support your mom. And if she asks you what you think - be honset. Otherwise, don't offer any opinions. Hope this helps.
2006-11-07 10:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by Amy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be nice, not every guy is a jerk, if your mother chose him she did it for a reason so trust your mothers judgment, and let her have fun.
2006-11-07 11:53:09 · answer #7 · answered by This is just my opinion! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be mature!!! If your parents are seperated then your mother has right to be herself happy. I think you understand what I am saying.
2006-11-07 11:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by Sabyasachi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put the shoe on the other foot, how would you feel if it was your boyfriend?
2006-11-07 11:29:07 · answer #9 · answered by angel_64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋