I met this guy on a dating site. He happend to have had a job interview in my state. He came to VT from FL and we went out and had a fantastic time. He didnt contact me until I sent an email telling him what a wonderful time I had and that I am looking forward to seeing and hearing from him again. He gave me many compliments in his emails, but has not said anything about calling or seeing me again, he is emailing me. Is he interested? Should I call him? Or should I leave the ball in his court?
2006-11-07 10:06:37 · 10 answers · asked by vtrallygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he was hoping for a quickie when he was in your state. He could be attached to someone in his state you don't know about.
2006-11-07 10:09:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If he doesn't say anything about seeing or calling you, then he obviously itsn't. It's not very smart to find a dude on a dating site. Even though it turned out to be the guy that it was, it could have turned out to be a stalker.
Don't call him. It's a waste of your time. No, it's a waste of the time in your life. Life is like a roll of the toilet paper, as it gets closer to the end, it gets shorter...SO DON'T WASTE YOUR LIFE ON HIM!
Or...to put it in a nicer way, leave the ball in his court.
2006-11-07 10:11:30 · answer #2 · answered by beford95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the ball in his court...but it appears as though, in spite of having had a good time, he's just not that into you...
If he were interested, he'd have contacted you first and/or already made a comment about hoping to see you again at some point...
2006-11-07 10:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I read in a magazine that after the frist date the guy would be nerves or something like that and that he just needed some time until he can call, but if he doesn't do anything then just move on OK?
2006-11-07 10:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by shy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if he's emailing you then he must like something, don't rush the guy send him an email too maybe later you can ask if he wants to go out again, maybe he's just the slow type so you go infront and lead but wait a little first, if he wasn't interested in you he'd have jumped out of your world completely so at least you know there's something.
2006-11-07 10:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by kimmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the ball in his court this time. See what happens.
2006-11-07 10:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by Just Me baby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Some people just like to e-mail a little more than talk on the phone. Try texting him. It's quicker in most situations.
2006-11-07 10:10:35 · answer #7 · answered by kinreep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might wait, a minimum of sometime. that is merely human nature to wish what you have not got, and that i'm speaking for HIM, not you. Make him ask your self what you're doing as we talk, make him think of approximately you. i are conscious of it's going to be puzzling, yet I consistently hit upon a sprint secret much greater enticing. That, and once you adult males finally DO talk/celebration, that is going to likely be that plenty sweeter! So text fabric him the next day on the latest. Congratulations!
2016-11-28 02:23:41 · answer #8 · answered by aundrea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him. Just maybe he's seeing how interested you are in him. Vermont is very pretty and romantic in the winter ;-)
2006-11-07 10:10:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he left the court
2006-11-07 10:08:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋