2006-11-07 09:49:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No but, you should not be giving her reasons to. That is usually why they do,
2006-11-07 09:51:22 · answer #1 · answered by shyone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a person suspects that their significant other is cheating, then sorry...you gotta do "whatever" to put your mind at ease! However, I'd say the relationship is definitely on the down slide even if you find out the person is innocent...cause trust has been damaged on one side, and the "snooper" has some serious issues to deal with.
2006-11-07 17:56:55 · answer #2 · answered by livtru_always 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a cheater then yeah, if you have done nothing to deserve that, then no. My ex cheated on me and then went snooping through my phone and emails, she was the one that was nervous and paranoid, not me. My advice is to be clear you don't like it and if she doesn't stop, dump her.
2006-11-07 17:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by Baba Ganoush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its not okay. This is an invasion of privacy. Would you want him snooping in your stuff? If you have a reason to believe he's cheating then confront him about it. Listen to your intuition, its probably right.
2006-11-07 17:53:21 · answer #4 · answered by *Cara* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do it if and only if a lawyer or private investigator had asked for them, looking for written or photographic documentation to use as evidence in an actual divorce trial. That being said, chances are you won't have to anyway, simply because you are already intuitively/instictively aware it is taking place. My advice would be to confront him and look for body language/social cues that would give him away.
2006-11-07 18:14:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes! If you can find out on your own then go for it! Plus he's putting it out there for the whole world to see! My ex was doing stuff online - and lying to people about who he was...needless to say I bursted his bubble REAL quick! (I also made it so he couldn't even log onto the computer - let alone get online) But...he was different!
2006-11-07 17:56:35 · answer #6 · answered by Mandy L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's right to snoop. You should just ask him if he's cheating. If he cares he will confess. If not...then he's a loser.
2006-11-07 17:52:12 · answer #7 · answered by imasooite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on, you wouldn't want a guy doing that to you, would you? (You are a girl, right?) It's invasion of privacy, even if you have the best intentions for yourself.
2006-11-07 18:17:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so because if he is not going to tell her, cause she needs to know. Cause a women knows when something is going on! So a guy should tell she shouldn't find out by herself!
2006-11-07 17:58:37 · answer #9 · answered by lizzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-11-07 17:50:28 · answer #10 · answered by glen_loves_fun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋