the story has been going on for more than a year now.Ive been seeing this guy and thats because of my persistance.He never gave the slightest chance to get to know me,he has been from the beginning distant and indifferent. and always wanted just sex.lately we dont even go out nomore, he only invites me to his place,and althought at first he was giving me the excuse of wanting to be free in general,now he did say that he doesnt feel like seeing me all the time.is he just not into me?hpw can he reject me emotionally without getting to know me/is it a matter of chemistry?and my problem is that my logic shouts that i have to forget about him but im in love and not strong enough.i keep going back and i feel angry for doing that.i dont want to quit him,i wish i could change that..
2006-11-07 09:48:40 · 8 answers · asked by sophie c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just get you another guy who will pamper you, and you'll forget the first one's name in no time. Been there and done that (many times).
2006-11-07 09:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay this situation is actually kind of common. See he only wants to see you for sex, he is using you as "booty call" and you continue to give to him which puts him in control of your situation or relationship with this guy. You need to cool out and just be by yourself for a while. If you asks you over to his place again, say you have previous engagements, and don't tell him what, it's none of his buisness. This will make him have more respect for you and this will help you to have more respect for yourself. And just maybe when you are ready of course your relationship with this guy will become a little more serious that what it is.
2006-11-07 17:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, when a boy really likes you he will show interest in what you do, what you think and how you feel. He will want to spend time with you: call you in the phone just to hear you voice… take you places, share his interests with you; tell you how he feels and what he thinks… if he’s not doing any of those things let him go… he’s just using you until he finds another girl trust me… been there I know it’s not easy… but do it!
From now one when he asks you to go to his house tell him you are busy… always busy and it is none of his business what you busy doing… like all the sudden he cares??? ... busy... late and I have to go... Go out and find a nice boy who will treat you with love and respect…
2006-11-07 18:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by string1dm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems as if her was never really yours. If he never cared enough to get to know you then yu are better off kicking him to the curve so at least you can say you dumped him!
2006-11-07 17:51:08 · answer #4 · answered by Cali Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants you for sex! That's not a problem if that's ok with you too but it's obviously not so I say just stop.
2006-11-07 18:01:09 · answer #5 · answered by dil7827 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very simple actually, this is how guys operate. if you're still scratching your head listen to Tom Leykis, if you don't know who that is check out www.blowmeuptom.com
2006-11-07 17:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by Jeremy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously bored. The novelty has worn off................
Time to move on!
Mr Happy
:o)
2006-11-07 17:52:00 · answer #7 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make up ur mind
2006-11-07 17:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋