I meet this guy and hes very funny and hes great i mean we been dating for like one week and yet he wants to move in with me i don't know what to do. He says he loves me and all that but i just meet him and i think im falling in love too. Is it true what people say love at first sight? i mean hes really wonderful
2006-11-07 09:44:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope, don't let him move in. Tell him he's moving way too fast. He could be a psycho and hiding it. You have not been with this guy long enough to really know him. When you feel comfortable enough with him to do private things (like urinate or fart) in front of him then I'd say ok.
2006-11-07 09:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hiya love,
if i was you i would be very careful, yes he may well love you!! but i think if you have real feelings for him try and spend as much time together as possible and take things easy i know it is difficult when you fall for someone and your heart string pull at you 24/7 but it will be very worthwhile and he will no doubt have more respect for you in the end,i would at least give it a month or so before even thinking of letting him move in with you.
i have been with my current partner for 17 years and we still now play the game (getting to know you) where we ask each other questions about ourpast and it can be quite FUN!!
if you do love him and he feels the same what is the rush you have your whole life ahead of you.
GOOD LUCK
2006-11-07 17:59:27 · answer #2 · answered by no_barbiegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Who knows what will happen in the future. You might not even be with this guy for very long. Then what are you going to do when you break up? I say wait. Don't rush anything. Moving in can sometimes ruin a relationship.
2006-11-07 17:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by imasooite 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run don't walk away from this man. He has issues that he has to deal with if he wants to move in with you this soon. It takes time to get to know someone and to trust them. If you can date with no sex for 6 months to a year and stay friends then you might want to consider letting him move in then. At this point he will be either controlling or want you to support him. Please don't allow him to do this. Been there done that.
2006-11-07 17:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by truckermama 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Too soon. If it's really love, it'll still be there 6 months down the road. Consider moving in at that point if you still want to.
2006-11-07 17:46:03 · answer #5 · answered by kjhenkel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when i met my fiance it was love at first sight as well but we took the time to know each other,it took us one year before we moved in together we found out about each other and what we liked and disliked we have been together 8 wonderful years and we are still finding out about each other and for me its still love at first sight unfortunately we haven't been able to marry but we will soon remember first get to know this guy and relay find out what he is about does he have a steady job will he be able to support you and your family if you decide to start one,is he reliable and responsible also get to know his family this will tell you alot about someone as well
2006-11-07 18:11:51 · answer #6 · answered by mart1gon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who did a similar thing with his current girlfriend. They are doing very well. While I wouldn't generally advise someone to do that, do whatever your instincts tell you to do and whatever you think is best for you.
2006-11-07 17:46:41 · answer #7 · answered by acvader 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm just going to say it........ARE YOU CRAZY!!
He could be a killer or something you don't know who he is if you have dated him for only 1 week. Big mistake Big
2006-11-07 17:46:25 · answer #8 · answered by jacket2230 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We're gonna read about this one, in the paper................
Mr Happy
:o)
2006-11-07 17:47:00 · answer #9 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
move in with him instead
2006-11-07 17:47:45 · answer #10 · answered by glen_loves_fun 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋