ok i hav a boyfrien, but there is something about him that spooks me like badly. and i hav no clue wat 2 do. ok but the problem is i dont know wat it is bout him that scares me hes real sweet and caring, but i just dont no help me please!
2006-11-07 09:36:58 · 20 answers · asked by beach_babe88988 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're worried for your own safety, listen to your gut. Some things don't make sense and no amount of reasoning will take you to the best decision. Listen to your gut.
2006-11-07 09:40:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dunno if we're talking about the same kinda feelings but when I was 14, 15, 16, I had a series of really short relationships. We were indeed "bf/gf" but I felt so wierd around boys that I would find any excuse possible to end the relationship. I've concluded that at that time I just wasnt ready for a boyfriend, even though I would have sworn up and down at the time that I was. Anyway I ended up getting a reputation as a slut even though I didnt sleep with any of them, just because they came and went so fast.
I think you should go with your gut feeling, you shouldnt feel wierd when youre around someone youre supposed to like. You could be not ready or it could be your intuition telling you that something really isnt right about the situation. Maybe hes a little older than you? Maybe he smokes or drinks or does drugs and you dont, there doesnt always appear to be a big difference in a few years but in teens, each year of age adds up to significant experience and you should stick to someone your speed. Good luck
2006-11-07 09:43:33 · answer #2 · answered by glowworm16f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt theres anything wrong with you. You need to figure what youre spooked about though. Its probably something perfectly normal. Maybe youre scared about how much you like him and don’t want to get hurt. Use the force beach babe!!
2006-11-07 09:42:22 · answer #3 · answered by RaptureMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd love to help, but you're definitely going to need to give some more information. How old are you? and him? how long have you knownw him/ Does he always spook you? more at some times than others?
2006-11-07 09:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by czekoskwigel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girl let me tell u we as women or girls whatever have a extra sense God gave to us I'm telling u its what let a sista know how her man is cheating on her with absolutely no proof what so ever that what u call women's intuition don't never doubt yourself if u feel something is wrong than girl u r not crazy u be careful and watchful i mean that .
2006-11-07 09:48:40 · answer #5 · answered by miss thing 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a guy friend like that. I would dump him. Seems harsh, but follow your intutition. It's usually the best thing to follow. Just tell him that you don't have that much in common and you want to see other people.
2006-11-07 09:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by QueenofLeon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have a mental problem caused by having only xx chromosomes. Don't feel too bad though. It affects about half of the Earths population.
2006-11-07 09:40:00 · answer #7 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
did you had boyfriend promblems like him treating you badly or breaking you heart? maybe this guy is for real the only way to know is stay with him and find out
2006-11-07 09:40:10 · answer #8 · answered by bell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets see your freaking out because he is too nice...maybe he is gay and using u as a cover up by the way learn to spell i had a hard time understanding ur words
2006-11-07 09:41:30 · answer #9 · answered by Kim Wise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you! It is your female intuition working. We, women, have this, you know and we must trust our intuition.
Try to discover more about him, without your boy friend knowing.
Good luck!
2006-11-07 09:41:05 · answer #10 · answered by Vovó (Grandma) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋