I was with this guy that I'd been seeing & his friends (not close friends but he knew them) Well I was wearing a skirt & when I leaned up against him with my back turned to his friends, he lifted up my skirt & showed off my ***. I got mad & told him I was for his eyes, only & he said that he knew, but it was "just for a lil show" in his words. Well why would he do such a thing?! Was he insecure or felt that he couldn't compete with the other guys for whatever reason so that he had to show me off to the other guys?
2006-11-07 09:33:29 · 16 answers · asked by feisty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yep..You got it right..
He was insecure & trying to make himself look good to the guys..
Not a very good trait in a guy's character for a long term relationship...
Real Men don't trade their girls to other guys ...
2006-11-07 09:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is proud of you and showing you off. Maybe he did want to show off and show the other guys what lovey butt you have. Be embarrassed, but be flattered and ask him not to do it again out of respect for you. Give him a bit of a break and don't nag, but let it be know that, like you said, "for his eyes only."
2006-11-07 17:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was just being an ***hole, insecure or not that is a really immature thing to do which proves he doesn't have alot of respect for you. Sorry girl time to move on
2006-11-07 17:37:07 · answer #3 · answered by joker:P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's cuz he's a JERK. i dated a guy like that once. he kept trying to pull my shirt UP to show off my flat stomach to his friend.. .disgusting! i was really embarrased..even grosser is that i think his friend liked it.. anyways, obviously the guy was an asshole trying to show off what he had....so stupid. my boyfriend now i know would NEVER do something like that! it really makes u feel like trash, like ur just a piece of meat for his friends to "ogle"! and also, when the friend looked i felt really grossed out!
2006-11-07 17:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that makes him insecure. i think that show's that he thinks your a whore. if he respected u he would not think it was ok to do somethin like that. somehow he knew that you'd do exactly what u did. which is laugh it off, shrug your shoulders and act like it was no big deal. u should have more respect for yourself toots.
2006-11-07 17:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him straight-up why he did it. My thoughts are that he's so into you -and proud of the thought that you are his- that he's been bragging about it to his friends. And of course, as most men are, they didn't believe him, and probably dared him to show them that he's telling the truth.
Good luck!
2006-11-07 17:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by Heloise South Africa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was being an ****** in front of his friends. Typical man behavior. We can't help it a lot of times. It's in our genetics. You have to nag it out of us.
2006-11-07 17:36:23 · answer #7 · answered by acvader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just more easy-going and doesn't take the human body too seriously.
2006-11-07 17:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by Shal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the problem here?????
He's just foolin' around. Guys do that, you know...........
Jeeze.........relax there, princess!! There are more important things in life to concern yourself with!!!!!
Mr Happy
:o)
2006-11-07 17:45:42 · answer #9 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF!?!?!?!?!?!?!
ill say it again.......WTF!?!?!?!??!!??!!?!?!...
what a jerkoff......has nothing to do with insecurity....hes just a moron....he has no manners or respect........i cant believe you didnt slap his face off.........i would never do that to any girl i cared about........im not trying to show the world how great my gf's azz is...........wow......still shocked..........very disrespectful.....he treated you like a whore........not cool....
if i were you id dump him cuz he doesnt see you as an equal...but as an object that belongs to him and doesnt deserve the same respect as others.........
2006-11-07 17:40:18 · answer #10 · answered by SpinKick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋