if you were seeing a girl on a casual basis, but you really liked her, would you ask her for a BJ or hint that you want her to go down there when your "fooling around" if you have only kissed so far?if she refused and you still wanted to see her, are you really interested or just holding out for her to go "down there"?
2006-11-07 09:30:59 · 15 answers · asked by Blue Eyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
would you ask tho?or hint?
2006-11-07 09:36:01 · update #1
is a BJ such a big deal if youve only met a few times, kissed and its all rather casual?
2006-11-07 09:37:07 · update #2
if I really liked her I would continue to see her regardless
2006-11-07 09:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by oldjr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the end of the day a 99% of blokes will take a less attractive girl who likes bj's than a totally gorgeous girl who doesn't like them. Any way be aware that a guy will do and say anything to get a girl to do the deed ,if your a xxxx buddy then ur a fool to ur self ur being no more than a free prostitute. Dont let them get away with it.
2006-11-07 18:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would always like to see the bj on ever date but i suppose about 4 times a week i could stand for and if she doesn't like going there, there is no grounds for a relationship to last because the boredom will set in about year and a half to three years when you could off been having more fun with sumone else... so go on girl give it to him ;) oops that's if your a girl hehehehe
2006-11-07 17:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by fivelighters 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you might be putting your relationship on the line if you do ask for a bj and she refuses. if your willing to take that risk then go for it. she will give you a bj when she is ready.
2006-11-07 17:34:43 · answer #4 · answered by djmistaspot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if i really liked some girl, but i was feeling horny and wanted bj, i wouldn't say nothing, because she would probaly just think i was using her for sex.
I would carry on seeing her and things would develop as time moved on, if she really liked you too.
2006-11-07 18:37:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i would not ask her to give me a BJ --- so her refusal would not matter
if you are interested in the lady then thats the last thing on your mind --- well not last but not high priority
2006-11-07 17:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so personally i dont like BJ i mean its discusting...not if u r ready to return the favour only if u r that close.
but still on a casual basis for me i dont think its a good idea.
my gf used to give me herself i mean it was like a moment but i also respected her n returned the favour for sure.
2006-11-07 17:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by farukhbeyg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BJ over-rated x
2006-11-07 17:35:57 · answer #8 · answered by misbehave4me 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its always good to ask her when you have given her a good muff diving job for half an hour so she has come several times
she will always go down knowing she will get a good muff job in return
2006-11-07 17:39:31 · answer #9 · answered by SH1T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the 1st move go down on her when shes all moaning n happy then down she goes gota give and take i say
2006-11-07 17:43:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋