How many guys fantasize about other women during sex? and who is it you think about and why?

Question

My BF told be he has fantasized about other women during sex why would he do this? Our sex life is good or is it good cause he has to fantasize about being with another women... Help me please understand.

Answer 1

that is the difference between a good "sex" life and "making love".
It should now be apparent that you are in love and he is in "LUST" - he craves sex and you are looking for love.GET IT?

Answer 2

In remembering that at the end of the day, humans are still animals and we have animal instincts, it is easy to see why...

Males are hard wired to impregnate as many females on the planet as possible, whereas females are hard wired to protect the few young that they may have. The first time your boyfriend slept with you; his animal mind was telling him that he impregnated you (regardless of if you used contraception or not), therefor, and consecutive time he slept with you, his animal mind told him that it was useless.

so, the reason why he fantasises about different women is because his animal mind wants him to impregnate every woman he sees; but his conscious mind tells him to be with you. So in order to have sex with you, he must think of other women.

Answer 3

Is o.k girl, don't tell me there isn't another guy you think is hotter then you're men. Yes there is, so go for it and close your eyes and think of your men as the other guy and really concentrate on the other F.U.C.K.I.N.G. you.

Men do it all the time, and so do we. But men are stupid enough to spoil it for themselves and tell us. Women are smarter and we fantasize about other men and we even moan louder, even if is not good. So don't feel bad please yourself and, who cares. Men are dogs regardless, so ride him like one.

Answer 4

I don't think that many do. I have never, just because I am so focused on what I am doing at the moment. Why imagine being with some one when you have someone right there?

Answer 5

i'm able to purely permit you already know what my husband tells me. while we are having intercourse it particularly is barely us. while he's masturbating then it must be the whole Dallas Cheerleaders squad. For myself, as quickly as I even have intercourse with my husband i'm too freaking busy to maintain a coherent theory much less an easily myth. edit - you're very youthful. you will possibly no longer think of you're yet you're. one million individual, no count how lots you adore and adore them won't meet your each and every sexual prefer/prefer. it particularly is no longer gross. it particularly is a fact of existence.

Answer 6

you can never understand anyone else's mind unless its yours.

if its something that he does, its not harming you. maybe it actually helps him stay in the motion.

i fantasize when im with my fiance and i told him about it. they're just fantasies and if it turns me on to think about it, then so be it.

i know he does too, it kinda turns me on when he watches porn when im doing the work...

why dont you try to fulfill his fantasies and blow his mind!

Answer 7

I think he wants it in 3 ways. Ask him if he wants a sex doll while sleeping with you. I think it is not right to think somebody else when he is performing sex with you.

Answer 8

Guys do that. It could be a celebrity, an old girlfriend, or just some chick we saw on the street. nothing against you...

Answer 9

you should be asking him if your sex life if good. and ask him who and why he fantasizes!

Answer 10

thats not true. Its really suppose to be pure and sacred i only think bout my girl while i have sex. Hope youre wid the right guy???????