Me and My exboyfriend broke up after we were seperated by hurricane Katrina.He cheated but we still were friends. When he got a new girlfriend, she asked him to tell me not to call so I made up lies to pull them apart and push us closer together,I wanted my love back. It worked, there not together and now he wants me back but he doesn't know it was all a lie
2006-11-07 09:15:43 · 23 answers · asked by Dessira W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It was nice that you and your exboyfriend remained friends. The other girl sounds like she was very unsecuried. But you did wrong by lieing and you should of let nature take its place, Did you ever hear that sayen if you love something set it free if it comes back to you it was meant to be if it doesn't it never was meant to be. You need to tell your friend that you lied. Just tell him you two need to talk with no yelling or anything. And tell him the truth. This might make the love you two have alot stronger or it might be a few hard feelings. But it will be out in the open and you will beable to look at him without guilt.
2006-11-07 09:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of breaking them up maybe it could have been better to explain to her that you were just friends. And after that if she still didn't stop bothering him about you then he might have realized she wasn't the right one and come back to you. If you love him than you did the right thing and he obviously wants you back now so take him back and when the moment is right tell him the truth. If he loves you he will understand.
2006-11-07 17:26:45 · answer #2 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In any relationship honesty and communication are the keys to making it work, By you lieing your putting your relationship at a big risk cause sooner or later he will find out about it and im pretty possitive he wont be happy about the whole situation.
2006-11-07 17:24:43 · answer #3 · answered by tess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you did was a terrible thing. Those lies will resurface sooner or later. Then what will you do? I think you need to sit down and let your boyfriend know exactly what you did. How can you go forth in a relationship if it is based on dishonesty?
2006-11-07 17:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth, straight up! If he really does love you, he won't mind. But if you don't tell him now, and he finds out later, he might accuse you being a full-blown liar... with your pants on fire!
No seriously, I'm glad you're back together, but tell him a.s.a.p.
2006-11-07 17:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by Heloise South Africa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell him that you lied then he will definately break up with you. he will probably be VERY mad at you for a loong. But then again, you have to decide whether you can live with the guilt or not.
2006-11-07 17:31:51 · answer #6 · answered by spicyangel8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he cheated and you lied and conspired to get him back? Sounds like you 2 are perfect for each other...enjoy your hell-like lives together.
2006-11-07 17:21:51 · answer #7 · answered by sir_lag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that when u love someone u should let go of them nd if they come bak to u then they were urs nd if they dont they never were.. u just have to find the right person for urself.. nd a relationship based on lies its not right... i mean dont u feel guilty?
2006-11-07 17:25:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come clean. Lasting relationships cannot be built on a lie. They will crash and burn. If you don't, he may never find out, but it will eat at you and eat at you forever! Trust me, the guilt never will go away. Come Clean!
2006-11-07 17:25:22 · answer #9 · answered by lylethecrocodile 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's never good to lie. A relationship should be based on honesty.
2006-11-07 17:28:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋