2006-11-07 09:14:27 · 47 answers · asked by auroa26 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure, write the letter, but then rip it up. It doesn't really matter why you broke up. The point is, you're broken up now and you need to move on!
2006-11-07 09:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really feel like you need the answer to move on with your life than yes, you should get a hold of him either by a letter or call him up. If he dosent give you a straight up answer than most likely it was just that he didnt feel that connection with you any more. As hard as it may be, you need to find the streagth and move on with your life. You two were not meant to be, and someone out there is coming your way. Try not to focus on the past or the futrue, look at right now, the present. And find out what you want in life and go for it, and along the way the right guy will come.
If you feel like you already are over your ex than dont bother writing him a letter, it doesnt matter and it will only cause more pain. But like i said if you are not over him and you want to know the truth than go for it. Write him a letter, or call him now.
2006-11-07 09:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Don't write him. Knock on his doorstep. He owe you an explanation and you ought to know what happened. Do not ever let a guy kick you in the curb just like that. Be assertive.
Writing is far different from meeting face-to-face. You can sense some truth or lies based on his body language and his facial expressions.
If he's in a la-la land and meeting him is out of the question, better pick up the phone and dial his numbers. Just talk and when he already say his side of the story, move on.
2006-11-07 09:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by RERUNS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I would say let things go. I know that is easy for me to say because I am not currently in your shoes, but I have been there before. You have all these questions built up inside, and you feel that if you get them out to him that they will all magically be solved (or at least parts of them that is). The plain truth is though that even if you wrote the letter to him, and gave it to him, he may not read it at all.
You broke up for a reason, and if he didnt give you one, or gave you a half baked one, then it wasnt meant to last anyways. Maybe the reason you broke up has been brewing a lot lately. I say if you want him, wait for him to make the first move. Otherwise you will be handing your heart to someone who doesnt want it.
2006-11-07 09:22:10 · answer #4 · answered by glorymomof3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah... letters can be tossed away and ignored. Call him up.. tell him you don't want to get back together, you just think that you deserve an explanation... so that you can be a better person for the next guy... (if it was your fault) or you can figure out what kind of guy to avoid next time!!! If you really want to know... ask him to tell you the truth for the sake of growth. But hey, my advice, if you aren't willing to face the possibility that it was something you did... just let it go.
2006-11-07 09:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think the scoundrel is going to tell you the truth? You will be giving him the opportunity to dump on you big time as he has the time and opportunity you just gave him to place all the blame on you. It would be manipulation time. Don't do it.
If you really look at it and set aside your self defenses here you know why you broke up. We always do but only if we are willing to look at ourselves critically. That way, we don't walk into the next relationship with our guard necessarily up because we know what we need to avoid this time around.
2006-11-07 09:24:14 · answer #6 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't write a letter. I'd simply move on. You deserve better. If he broke up with you and didn't really give you a reason, then he's not worth your trouble. A real man would discuss it with you.
2006-11-07 09:20:49 · answer #7 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he end it with you? Be careful what you write because right now you will talk with your emotions. Later on, you may wish that you did not say so much or even did not ask him at all. Tough call - maybe you can have a friend proof read it before you send it. Somone you trust and who will have your best interests in mind.
2006-11-07 09:21:45 · answer #8 · answered by Signilda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, but he probable won't return the letter. Most guys have a hard time expressing there feelings in words. Try getting a friend to talk to them instead.
2006-11-07 09:20:25 · answer #9 · answered by kinreep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't why do you have to write a letter he didn't write a letter to break up with you so you should go to him you deserve an answer anyway why how did he break up with you
2006-11-07 09:26:21 · answer #10 · answered by jazzyluv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋