My man & my friend?

Question

My friend (who i nicknamed Buddy) is very close to me. He helps me and helps me get better. Today my friend said we go out... cause we are seen talking in the hall at work all the time. And i think he wants more but i'm kinda all nerves. I like him inside but i'm afried what will happen. Should i go for it?Do yall think i have a chance? i mean i have a lot of guy-friends but a boyfried........ wow.(21 years old?)

Answer 1

THE ANSWER IS IN YOUR QUESTION ITSELF SWEETHEART...YOU CALL HIM YOUR MAN...WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR ...GO GO GO...ALL THE BEST...

Answer 2

Well thats what is suppose to happen. Ur man should be ur friend and ur lover. So when u have a problem u can come to him and not another guy. All that does is cause drama. Just be sure u really want to be with him. Inside you might just want to be friends, but ur just curious about more. Remember u have to think about his heart. He may like u a whole lot more than u do him. It should be the same feeling or someone is going to get hurt bad. So really think about it and then be honest from ur heart to him :)

Answer 3

Yes. go for it. :) just try hard not to get upset if it's not what u expected.. and try hard not to let your emotions get the best of you so that it ruins the friendship..but u know what? men and women are very very hard to just be "friends".. because eventually one person will have feelings for the other, and from that point on it's not a "real" friendship.. i mean, if a guy likes u and is friends w/ you, it's cuz he wants to get closer to u, not cuz he just wants to be ur friend. and if u liked a guy a bit, u would be much sweeter and nicer than if it was just a friend. so already it will be biased! so just go for it, and try to be mature if things don't work out too great.

if u go for it, remember to own up to ur feelings and Respect yourself: u LIKE him..so he should be flattered! if he says No, or if he wants to be friends, that's ok. don't be ashamed or embarrased, just know that he's giving up something good. u know? u have a lot to offer.. so brush it off if he says no! same for guys... they should never be scared to hit rejection, cuz u should own up to ur feelings! :) never be embarrased about it.. it's really hard, but when u think about it, u are actually saying that the person is Great and u want to date them. that's really nice compliment!

good luck~

Answer 4

Friends make the best BF. I think once you have the respect of a friend he will treat you good in your relationship.. try it. whats the worst that can happen?? Good Luck.

Answer 5

purple FLAG! Why might he be jealous of your individual husband? Are you desiring or having an affair with him? while you at the instant are not having intercourse with any of them, does that contain your husband? something tells me there is something greater to this you're leaving out.....

Answer 6

best friends make the best boyfriends. They already know your positives and negatives and still like you.

now as long as he doesn't get clingy and posessive you may do well. Ask him what he expects you to do with your other male friends? see if you like the answer first. if yes, go for it.

Answer 7

When life changes it's best to go with it. I am not saying it's going to be easy but there is always a lesson to be learned. Go for it.

Answer 8

Well Honey,,,if you feel that way about him then I say GO FOR IT. It is a sure thing that you like him a lot and would like him for a b/f,,,,

Answer 9

go for it, the best relationships usually start out with a solid friendship first

Answer 10

i had that problem once before from my experience i would say dont do it if it is a good friendship keep it at that