My son's father passed away before even knowing my son, so his uncle has been in and out of his life. I've had a lil crush on him before and I stopped getting so close to him. Now he is back again, and I think I am starting to develope an attraction to him. Don't wanna go jumping in bed with him or anything, It's just he is a true gentlemen so that is rare. I don't wanna ruin are friendship, but we are two lonely people and we can use each others company. So please help, He dosen't know how I feel.
One, is it wrong to feel like I do?
Two, How do I approach him?
2006-11-07 09:07:31 · 11 answers · asked by Poppin my Collar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was in a relationship a while ago, I've been out alot, but my mind keeps on going back to my son's uncle. He is one great guy and we are very compatiable. With all the people I meet and go out with, why is he on my mind.
2006-11-07 09:21:09 · update #1
You and your son's uncle are adults. Your son's father has passed away. You are free relationship-wise. If your son's uncle is also free, then you may pursue this as you would any other relationship. The only caution is that you both need to decide beforehand how you will handle a break-up should it occur. You will not want to hurt your son's relationship with his uncle. That is the only real concern that is outside the parameters of any other relationship. This is also coming from a traditional Christian belief system in which there is no sex before marriage. Sex will change things some. Sex will not make a relationship impossible, but it does change the nature of the relationship without doubt or question. The phrase, "Enter at your own risk" comes to mind.
2006-11-07 09:37:08 · answer #1 · answered by Jack 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You never know maybe that is why he keeps coming around! I know he loves his nephew but maybe he would like to be more than just an uncle and a friend. He maybe the best and the right thing you need! So start up a conversation about how you had a crush on him and were afraid to say anything because he was the brother and if he says he did too girl jump in the bed under the bed girl you can even stand up! Make him your man!
2006-11-07 09:19:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 12:14:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure on this one............how old is your son....is the family involved? if so how are they going to react. if everything is good(as much as you think)ask him....you are my sons uncle but i have feelings for you i don't know you but i would go with a joke thing if you know him well enough you can get one..my husband was and is my best friend...it wasn't the same situation but people were not happy...we both had people in our lives.....i wish you the best lise
2006-11-08 18:57:21 · answer #4 · answered by lise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U said your sons uncle, not your man's brother. I think you should wait n see though...
2006-11-07 09:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 4 it
2006-11-07 09:12:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not act upong these feelings. It would have tremendous consequences on your son.
2006-11-07 09:12:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong and he feels the same way or he wouldn't be around.
2006-11-07 09:18:59 · answer #8 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not blood relatives so just tell him.
2006-11-07 09:16:25 · answer #9 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm... in my opinion, eww... that would make him your brother-in-law... and for me, that is too much like family
2006-11-07 09:14:01 · answer #10 · answered by moi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋