I'm curious about this. Women like to give off an image of being the nicer, more innocent sex. But a lot of times I think it is fake. In particular there is this girl I flirt with all the time now and she claims to have a boyfriend.
I've met chicks that flirt like crazy yet they claim to be in relationships. I know for a fact these girls would be really bothered if they caught their boyfriend doing that. What's up with that? Isn't it a bit hypocritical?
2006-11-07 08:57:03 · 27 answers · asked by acvader 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh yes, and any man who couldn't handle that, got kicked to the curb. Flirting is part of my makeup, my genetic code, my being. Without it, I would die. take it or leave it. Luckily, I found plenty of great men over the years who had no problem with my flirting at all, as long as I came home with them in the end.
2006-11-07 09:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I love to flirt and I'm a 35 year old female in a long term relationship of 8 years.I have always been a flirt every since I was young. I'm with you about being a hypocrite .I my self would never be with a man or women if they were as big of a flirt as me......SAD BUT TRUE.
I think some people are just that way. a lot of times its because they have a low self esteem so they flirt to get a response out of some one.so that they can feel good.
2006-11-07 09:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I Flirt all the time, I think flirting is healthy. I don't care if my Boyfriend Flirts with other girls. The problem with most men is they flirt and don't tell anyone they have a girlfriend. Now if my Boyfriend was doing that it would piss me off. Its ok to flirt as long as both parties know it is just flirting and is not going to be taken any farther than that. The guys at work bought me a little plaque for my desk that says Office Flirt. Flirting is completely harmless in my opinion
2006-11-07 09:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by lilsueshue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Funny u should ask this. I was thinking about this this week. I've been considering situations were I have probably accused my bf so called flirtatious actions and yet I consider that hey I do these things all the time maybe there really isnt anything to it. For instance say I playfully sat in one of my guy friend's lap, i would think nothing of it. but waht if i saw a girl sitting in my guy's lap? Hmm.. well i think i would be thinking different. I wonder if we as women sometimes really are unknowingly hypocritical and sometimes blow a situation out of proportion? Still wondering...
2006-11-07 09:09:50 · answer #4 · answered by rumnraisin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'll sometimes flirt when I'm in a relationship and most of my friends do to...but we know where the line is, and typically it's with people who know us and know our situations or done in a joking manner so the other person won't necessarily take it as serious interest or a proposition...
I've flirted with the boyfriends of my girlfriends, in front of them...and everyone was kewl with it because we all know where things stand and it's just harmless fun...
If your relationship is secure, and you're flirting for fun, not an ego boost or to make sure you are still attractive to others, then it's all good...
Intention and target do make a difference...
2006-11-07 09:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women are more complicated and sneaky than men, this is true. But we love very deeply and will stand by our man no matter what. I think the reason we flirt is the same reason that men flirt. We just want to feel attractive to the opposite sex. I think its harmless but it does send out the wrong signal. If you want to know if someone is really interested and not just flirting, ask them out. if they say no they have a boyfriend, there is your answer. Just move on.
2006-11-07 09:16:16 · answer #6 · answered by cutencurley_05 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, I flirted like a madwoman when I was in a relationship that was not good for me. I was'nt that into the guy, and I did not feel attractive to him. When other guys paid me attention, it felt nice because I was getting something there that I was not getting from my man.
Then I met a guy who made me feel like the most wonderful thing. And I did not flirt nearly as much, because I felt secure.
These girls are just hedging their bets, cuz they aren't real sure about the man they are with.
Blame evolution, we're all just looking for the best genes, and the best provider.
2006-11-07 09:06:10 · answer #7 · answered by somebody cares 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i used to, but now i am married & so i gave that up. when i was younger & not married, there was nothing wrong with that. i was still loyal to my now boyfriend & never really meant anything by any of it. i have been called a tease, but is that really wrong? i had fun, which was flirting & i had my man who i would NEVER cheat on.
it may be confusing, but as long as she says, yes i have a boyfriend, then what is the deal? sometimes people have to get some of that energy out. that is what keeps some people from straying. as long as it doesn't go past general, basic flirting.
2006-11-07 09:03:43 · answer #8 · answered by christy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would never!! J/K sure im at fault of that take full responsibility I dont calim to be anything I just like to have fun im at work all day and
like to get tickled here and there im not a cheater but I do flirt to have fun. Look the way I see it is you can see but no touch nothing physical just fun flirt.
2006-11-07 09:09:11 · answer #9 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I hate flirting. I'm married and should have the responsibility to stop flirting.
Honestly I don't have an interest in flirting with many others. I think that those who DO flirt with the intention to cheat are serial cheaters.
2006-11-07 09:05:08 · answer #10 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋