we are engaged and he's away n cali...hes a good bf and all but he's so goodlooking im pretty sure sum females are after him. When we talk on da phn n be on AOL and i be on his names..how do i kno he bein true? we also have a beautiful little gurl 8 months old. we are both 19
2006-11-07 08:28:19 · 11 answers · asked by miss_ghetto_star 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You'll never trust him if you don't give him a chance to prove you can.
2006-11-07 08:33:15 · answer #1 · answered by Carleyheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he loves you and you love him, you should have trust. Its understandable your going to worry, anybody would. I guess all you can really do is believe in him, and give him the trust he deserves, if he hasnt cheated on you before, you need to give him the benifit of the doubt. If he does cheat on you, he dosent deserve you or that baby, and regardless of what people say the truth does always come out sooner or later, so just try not to worry im sure everything will be okay.. just look forward to him coming home!
2006-11-07 16:35:22 · answer #2 · answered by Lyssa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey it's time to grow up you and your bf are very young and he's still trying to learn about his self and I'm sure he wants to do whats right for you and your baby, so while he's away doing what ever maybe you should start a life of your own and the baby. go back to school or get a trade and get on with your life so when he comes back you have already started the family process either way you will be on the right track, think about your daughters future and yours and if your bf wants to be a part of it then all he will need is a trade or school and he to will be on his way in helping your family lol
2006-11-07 16:35:51 · answer #3 · answered by sexyswells42 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't know that. You just have to make the decision not to wonder, bc all it will do is eat you up and drive you apart. If he gives you an actual reason to suspect, you need to trust your instincts and decide if you can forgive him or not.
I'm sorry, but I have to say that in my experience, even good boyfriends cheat when the relationship is long distance, and the younger you are, the more likely it is to happen.
2006-11-07 17:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by chelleedub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okey well do you trust him and do you love him. Does he ever tell you that he wouldnt do that well you just need to trust him just tell him it bugs you and then hopefully it would be better. Now if he has a baby with you then really you shouldnt worry about it just trust the guy
2006-11-07 16:34:08 · answer #5 · answered by kristel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's 19, male, and according to you good looking. You can't trust him if he's in your backyard let alone in another state. May sound cynical, but the odds are heavy in my favor.
2006-11-07 16:31:19 · answer #6 · answered by sir_lag 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My "old man" weighs 250 lbs and females are always after him. Just make sure He knows and everybody else does that he's Yours. You can figure out ways...
2006-11-07 16:32:25 · answer #7 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest with him.
you will not tolerate unfaithfulness.
your child will stay with you always.
he has to make the decision to throw all that away.
you have to make the decision to trust your baby's daddy, that he will make the choices that are in the best interest of both your child.
2006-11-07 16:44:02 · answer #8 · answered by the wanderer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all you can look at is if you trust him.... I'm sure he is doin you right girl! Especially, if yall have beautiful baby girl, that is so sweet!
2006-11-07 16:33:54 · answer #9 · answered by *Red Hotts* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you decide to trust him, or you don't. You have to make a choice about how you want to think about him: is he a lying cheater, or is he someone you trust?
2006-11-07 16:30:49 · answer #10 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋