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the last time i tried to hold her hand she pulled away from me and told me that i have to give her some time. because we have been friends for so long. we have been dating for a month now and i havent tried to hold her hand since should i try. or should i wait.

also she tells people that we arent dating. she acts like my girlfriend on the phone but she doesnt when we are at school. what should i do?

2006-11-07 08:24:46 · 20 answers · asked by Sub_Zero 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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personally i would ask her what is going on and try to figure things out.

2006-11-07 08:27:57 · answer #1 · answered by energizer_91 1 · 0 0

U love her a lot....thats depicted clearly in ur question.... See, i'll tell u a hard fact...."Always go for the one who loves u, rather than whom u love"... The basic thing is that there is no need for comparison in her mind cozz no individual is the same...She was ok from so many months and suddenly she has become so....that means she is loosing interest in u....thats very clear...See, if u'll run after her, she will definitely feel that u need her and u r mad abt her.....There is no problem in loving someone but the thing which should be kept in mind is to let the other person also to feel the same....otherwise its fake.... The best thing for u is to tell her to tell u that she wants u or not....that will be a wise step....donot be in dark and make everything crystal clear....donot let anyone decieve u.....Donot ruin ur life....Move ahead if she says no....

2016-05-22 08:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

What are your real feelings for this girl? Is there some deep rooted connection that you feel for her? If you are not answering with a definite YES, then what you need to do is move on. I am not saying that you have to stop seeing her all together. I am saying that you are limiting yourself and that you might be missing some real good opportunities for some great relationships with some other girls. If you are not an item, then keep your options open. It certainly sounds like she is.

2006-11-07 08:39:24 · answer #3 · answered by dr.cocktail 2 · 0 0

maybe she's thinking about u nher together maybe she thinks its not a good idea and i know this sounds a bit harsh but at the end of the day she probably doesn't want to spoil ur friendship
i dont know y shes acting like she doesnt want people to know at ya school if i was u i would have a chat wiv her
and yeh u might need to give her sometime
but if u both want to be together then she shouldnt care about people knowing about u 2

2006-11-07 08:29:58 · answer #4 · answered by Katie P 2 · 0 0

I think you need to talk to her and ask her what is going on. Communication is key in any relationship and if the people involved are not willing to talk about how they feel then it is not yet time to be in that relationship.

But... It sounds like she is either embarrassed about the situation or is not comfortable in the situation.

I think she needs some time to think about if she would like to be in a dating relationship with you and you should let it be.

Give her her time and let her go. If she decides she wants to be with you in a while from now, great if you are still available, and if your not its her loss.

2006-11-07 08:31:55 · answer #5 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0 0

well maybe she need time dude well same thing happen to me when i first got a gf we tried holding hands but i got nervous and pull away but over time i started to her hold so dude maybe she is nerouvs and could be afriad of others what they might say so don't do anything for awhile she'll come to you it take time for a new relatinship to really start hey you got her to be with you so be happy and tell its okay and its going to fine so make her happy and comfort her but if she doesn't want to hold her tell her i'm sorry i'll wait till your ready well laterz dude

2006-11-07 08:31:43 · answer #6 · answered by mrl53104 2 · 0 0

I think that she might be embarested of you or that she dosnt want anyone to know because she might be worried what other other people think...

And yes i think you should try to hold her hand again or at least talk to her and ask her what she is thinking, or just tell her that you at least deserve an answer...

2006-11-07 08:27:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The best thing to do is to just talk to her about what your concerns are. You'd be surprised what a little communication can do. I mean, what is the point in her being your girlfriend if you can't really talk to her?

2006-11-07 08:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by czekoskwigel 5 · 0 0

kick her to the curb grab the fishing pole from the garage find the nearest lake and go fishing for someone new. plenty of other people out there dont waste your time let her chase you.

2006-11-07 08:27:44 · answer #9 · answered by eddie v 2 · 0 0

dump her and get a better gf

i had a gf like urs ( eg me and her at college kissed and stuff but when i went to a firework party she was mean and nasty so if i was you find a girl that will love u no matter what

2006-11-07 08:27:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I would move on. Why would you want someone who acts two-faced to you. There are others who will treat you better than that.

2006-11-07 08:27:48 · answer #11 · answered by Kim 5 · 0 0

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