i broke up w/ my guy(again) and told him now that i cannot deal w/ him cheating on me(w/ a guy) when we first got together.i have tried so hard to forgive and forget,but i can't help but wonder if he checks out the same guys i do(or even if his taste isn't as good as mine)....i am moving to a new place(but currently share a domain w/ him) and cannot stand to live with him anymore...he is a slob.then i'm leaving30minutes ago and he says he will clean and he loves me and blah blah blah...I NEED SOME INSIGHT TO STAY STRONG AND AWAY,@ Least please pray for me.
2006-11-07 08:22:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you have any respect for yourself? That should be enough.
2006-11-07 08:24:55 · answer #1 · answered by endrshadow 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
STAY STRONG. Its not going to be easy, and its really hard not to fallback on him, especially if thats your "comfort zone". It will take awhile but you will get there, do things to keep you occupied, make sure you have friends that support you and keep your mind off of him. Cheating is something that is hard to forgive and forget about, so just remind yourself that there is someone better out there who will respect you and treat you like you should be treated, and that it wasnt worth your time, when you could be finding that someone. Whatever you do dont make contact with him if you dont have to, this will just make the situation harder for you, until your strong enough to maintain a friendship stay away. Of course hes going to tell you he will clean and he loves you and all that good stuff, thats because he will do whatever to try and convince you to stay, but you just have to think to yourself if he actually means it, and if a month or two later the place will be sloppy and messy again, and whatnot. If this isnt what you want for your life, then follow your heart and stay positive!.
2006-11-07 08:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by Lyssa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that in order for you to move on you should try and do some self introspection afterwhich you should just take a break from relationships for a while and start all over again. Try finding someone new. It might be tough doing all of this if your old guy does not want to leave you alone but you will have to show him that you are your own person and tell him to also move on. Let him know that you're serious.
2006-11-07 08:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by John B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get out of that relationship and stay out! Try going out with friends, and meeting new people. Take it one day at a time and just try to distract yourself. He knows what you want to hear and he is trying his best to do what he can to make you stay. Go to family and friends for moral support. Take up a new hobby. Get involved in church activities or a club that may interest you. Just have enough respect for yourself to walk away and don't look back.
It won't be easy and it will take time, but you can do it!
PS I said a little prayer for you....
2006-11-07 08:33:45 · answer #4 · answered by Chrissy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try living life away from him. Do things that require your focus and attention. Sports, gym, maybe competition in the office (depending on what you do for work) are some things you can do.
Most importantly, if you don't like him, get away from him and stay away from him.
There is no reason for you to suffer.
2006-11-07 08:28:16 · answer #5 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dr. Jet suggests, Boyfriend Replacement Therapy performed by, of course, Dr. Jet.
2006-11-07 08:25:25 · answer #6 · answered by Jet 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best way is to move on....even if it's someone you don't really like, just go out with them to keep your mind off of the ex.
2006-11-07 08:27:25 · answer #7 · answered by topolove 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How about during one of your times of weakness your guy gives you an STD.
He can protect himself each and everytime but nothing is 100% safe.
Is he or is anybody worth endangering your health....
2006-11-07 08:25:46 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Georgia wont be waiting to maintain combating with Russia and it in no way ought to, yet while there are little countries with little u . s . a . and militia stress, does this fact enable any bigger u . s . a . to occupy the toddler?!
2016-10-03 09:39:51 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just simply...STAY AWAY. It's really very easy. Don't call him, don't see him, don't even write or text him. Just stay away. You already know how to do this. Now be strong and do it. You will survive...I promise.
2006-11-07 08:25:38 · answer #10 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
BE STRONG ... and repeat this to yourself as many times as needed:
"There are worse things than being alone. There are worse things than being alone. There are worse things than being alone. There are worse things than being alone."
Good luck ... I'll be praying for you!
2006-11-07 08:25:17 · answer #11 · answered by Bonny K 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋