Better if You are or You know muslim peoples.. 'cause then You can't better explane me everything.. I and Muhammad met in summer. Everything was more than wonderful. We were the happiest people in the world. I didn't believe in lovebefore, but i felt in love with him. In September i had to come back to my country (finish school). All the time he was crying, asking "why".. It was so hard. He and his brother were calming me.. "That's life..." .."inshalla.....". I believed. I'm in my country. 2 months he was calling me. We spent hours talking.. Almoust after Ramadan i got sms saying he doesn't love me anymore. I don't understand. I don't believe this. I just can't. I still have a hope.. After school I'm going back in the same country he is. He wants to be friends with me. Go for holidays in other countries and etc... What do You think? Why he wrote me that? Can i fight for his love? I'm so confused.. I just want to hear Your opinions and advices. Don't need silly comments. Please
2006-11-07 08:21:19 · 9 answers · asked by blikk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No no no ! I didn't mean that! I said "muslim" bec i wanted to hear opinions from other who are this religion. Bec i am not. And he is from totally different culture than I. So i thought maybe peoples like him are used to do like this. I mean - short term relations. Easy saying "love you" - "don't love you".. if u understand me....
2006-11-07 08:41:59 · update #1
missree ---> but.. I want this.. I was thinking about this even before I've met with him.. And it don't seems as a problem for me at all.. really..
2006-11-07 09:00:19 · update #2
thanks all of you.
I want to forget this, but... I know it will take time..
I'll try my best..
We'll see what happens next..
Thanks again
2006-11-07 18:12:10 · update #3
Explain to Muhammad how you feel about him.
2006-11-07 08:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is the same whatever religion you are, it's not specific. However, when you're younger you will fall in and out of love many times before you meet "the one" you want to be with. Maybe he's been told he has to go through an arranged marriage and that's why he's having to break off from you? There could be many reasons. Ask him to explain why he's doing this. If he doesn't answer, maybe he just wasn't emotionally mature enough to deal with the relationship?
2006-11-07 08:34:02 · answer #2 · answered by kpk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people move on hun. Sad as it is but some men believe the thos "out of sight, out of mind etc" if you know what I mean!!
Either that or he has had an easy lay.
2006-11-07 08:27:59 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like youve had a summer romance with this guy..years ago i went to turkey and ended up getting engaged to a guy called omar.. and i came home in the end,, he used to write to me ect.. but in the end i just ignored it..i wonder today what if? who knows.. just be very careful and i would say give it a go and see what happens you only live once... good luck and be carefull x x
2006-11-07 09:09:09 · answer #4 · answered by cathrin j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holiday romance nothing more hes moved on to the next one. Forget him hes not worth it.
2006-11-07 09:55:03 · answer #5 · answered by Kirks Folley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure why you need to be muslim to understand it. If he loved you and then changed his mind then you have to live with that. You can't make someone love you if they don't want to.
2006-11-07 08:36:29 · answer #6 · answered by charlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run while you can girl last thing you want to do is convert religion for a guy which is ultimately what you will be made to do
2006-11-07 08:55:30 · answer #7 · answered by missree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to tell u but if he thought anything of u he wouldnt do that its no point fighting for somthing thats not there u may fell somthing for him but its got to work both ways sorry
2006-11-07 08:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by hotmail 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess he realize that u didnt want him serious so he decided to move on
and i think that what he did
2006-11-07 08:26:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋