I don't get along with my dad, like at all, we NEVER talk if we r not fighting, I hate this situation but I can't help it, he insults me and tells me a lot of bad stuff with no reason, I reconize sometimes is my fault but he hates the way that i am and... I won't change just bcuz of him. How can this get any better??
2006-11-07 08:16:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you are going to have to take the upper hand here and REALLY this is hard but you have to force him to sit down with you in a quiet and calm matter discuss your feelings for him. You may find it the best conversation you have had with him. He maybe feeling the same way. Do this when there is no tension around. Wait till supper is over and everything is relaxed in the home and tell him you would like to discuss somethings with him. Don't go in hastefully and get his back up. don't use accusing phrases like "You never do" or whatever. Keep calm and cool and it will work out. Good Luck
2006-11-07 08:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Age and wisdom, Little One.
My oldest daughter and I hated each other for years... drugs, idiot men in her life, moving from one state to another... I was angry with her for wasting her life.
As she ( an I) have gotten older, she has settled down - and I've come to accept that I will never have that precious little girl back. So, our relationship has gotten better. We don't fight - and we talk often.
2006-11-07 17:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by Tim B 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell him how you feel, that he hurts you by the way he talks to you
2006-11-07 16:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by Victoria 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
u need my respect or you need respect? grow up, ur childish and in need of a good old time A55 paddling...................
2006-11-07 16:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋