id written how i feel about a girl in my blog.she read it and asked me if it was her.i told her so.we talked about if and though she had been thinking about it she said it would be better if we just stayed friends.
3 days later..she calls me at 2 am and confronts me with a few lies id previously told her about my ex's regarding my the sexual nature of our relationships.i had told most of the truth but then i messed up a few facts(first told her id did have sex with this girl, and then denied it).
so i had to confess that i did lie to her.i also said that id only lied because id thought shed look down upon me.id thought she would not like me.
she said my past doesnt bother her much but what hurts is the fact that i lied...and i agree that it is understandable..i broke her trust..and i think that maybe she was considering going out with me and thats why shed called.
now i dont know what to do...i accept what ive done..but i need to apologise.i truly love her...please help.pls
2006-11-07 08:07:53 · 7 answers · asked by all urs nytym 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She deserves a heartfelt apology, and you deserve a chance to tell her completely how you feel. If she turns you away after that, it's just the way it is. We learn from our mistakes, and we move on to new opportunities.
Good luck to you.
2006-11-07 08:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by Big G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whew! She's upset because you lied to her about your history. Something that most guys keep private. And you probably lied about it in the first place to keep her from getting her feelings hurt right? Maybe it's just me but I don't think you have anything to be all that sorry for. It sucks that she got her feelings hurt, that part I understand. But you didn't break anybody's trust. Why would she even want to know about your past like that? It's not like you were with her when it happened. If I were you I'd tell her that you care about her and that you're with HER now for a reason.
2006-11-07 08:16:12 · answer #2 · answered by Angela G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truly loved her dear you would have trusted her enough to tell the truth. I respect you alot for being honest once you were caught most guys still have not caught on to that yet (once your busted your busted) being someone who has just gone through this only with a husband you are going to have to earn that trust back...and it won't be easy if its even possable. Good luck and next time just tell the truth!
2006-11-07 08:12:43 · answer #3 · answered by thegoodwitchmm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My initial reaction is that she's not interested, and she's using this "Im hurt that you lied to me" to further back up her dis-interest in you. You mentioned that before you lied, she said she'd like to just be friends.... my best guess is that your lie isn't that big of a deal (thats a common lie) but she's milking it for all it's worth!
2006-11-07 08:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by love this site! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say you're sorry and try to pick up the pieces. It's going to take her a long time to trust you again and you have to go out of your way to make yourself trustworthy.
2006-11-07 08:12:41 · answer #5 · answered by bassmaim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, your toast buddy. The lies will be her excuse not to see you.
2006-11-07 08:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by FF Geek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make it up to her. big time
2006-11-07 08:11:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋