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we also want to have a very small, quiet ceremony, any suggestions on a romantic setting, inexpensive, spiritual but not religious.

2006-11-07 08:06:40 · 16 answers · asked by rikdi2 1 in Family & Relationships Weddings

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No one cannot marry oneself. Not to mention it would be a little hectic for your man to be asking the questions and answering them.

2006-11-07 08:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by Stiletto ♥ 6 · 2 0

Are you asking whether your fiance can marry himself?

The answer is no. My husband is also a minister and it was clearly stated that he is not able to perform his own ceremony.

Although you want to keep it inexpensive, having your fiance perform his own wedding ceremony would take the fun out of it. My cousin was married by her father, who was a minister.

2006-11-07 09:09:51 · answer #2 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1 0

I believe it has to be a separate Minister...shouldn't your fiance know this if he is a minister already? Get married outside in front of the water or in a park (depending on where you live and what the weather is) get married at a B&B and have the reception there also..congrats and good luck

2006-11-07 08:15:27 · answer #3 · answered by Dark Goddess 3 · 1 0

i think of by potential of conserving your divorce a secret, you're giving it a much greater useful carry on you than it desires to be. you have become a servant on your secret. i think of you're making extremely some assumptions and judgments of every person else because you're guarding your secret so protectively. in case you tell your secret to his dad and mom, then it loses all potential over you. you're making your secret completely too useful over you. except they are area of a few great strict faith, why might the minister even ask how his dad and mom experience approximately your divorce; require you to admit to them; or tell them? That is mindless by any potential. If his mom already hates you, then looking out you're divorced can no longer substitute her opinion of you. And in the experience that your fiance is an grownup, then there's no longer something his dad and mom can do to end him from getting married if he desires to get married. What century are you residing in???

2016-12-28 15:26:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

Lol, no! A friend could become ordained online and marry you though. I suggest a beautiful park for the nuptials. Will cost you anywhere from $30 to a few hundred.

2006-11-07 09:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by chelleedub 4 · 0 0

No.

Somebody has to officiate, and the groom--or the bride, for that matter--can't officiate AND participate. It's just not possible.

Besides, the minister's purpose (other than officiating) is to sign the marriage license--he's making your signature and your groom's signatures on the license official. Your groom can't make his own signature official--it's against the law, and your marriage would be invalid.

2006-11-08 13:24:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Negative. If you are getting married in the states you have to have three different signatures on the marriage license. One groom, one bride, and one officiant. The officiant has to ensure that the vows were legal for the state they were performed and that witnesses were present for the legal vows of marriage. Plus in the eyes of God, another person has to present blessing on the new couple in his name. You can't very well bless yourself.

2006-11-07 08:49:45 · answer #7 · answered by bubb1e_gir1 5 · 0 0

That would be a little odd...don't you think? He would be asking himself would he take you as his lawfully weded wife then would have to answer himself. Get someone else to do it and let him enjoy his day with you. Romantic setting probably would be ocean/beach side wedding or just outside in nature in general

2006-11-07 14:05:10 · answer #8 · answered by LondonNubie 2 · 0 0

Even if it is legal (which I am fairly sure it isnt) you wouldnt want to go that route... he needs to be a participant not an officiant. Kind of a tough role to play if youre the groom.

2006-11-07 08:15:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I'm a minister, I wanted to do the same thing, of course I'm just cheap! Walk down and say your vows and give me the $10.00 I,ll do the ceremony.

2006-11-07 08:20:48 · answer #10 · answered by rlwaters7 1 · 0 2

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