sleep with a married man?

Question

I guy a the gym i go to is very hot. I just found out he is married. I had never really made any conversation with him till four days ago. He's very attracted to me and i am to him. We have been chatting on messenger and our conversations have been getting pretty hot and intimate. Ive never slept with a married man ,but it seems he has cheated on his wife. Should i just have a one night stand with him to kill my sexual curiosity for him or follow my moral. I mean, he doesnt care obviously and we wont do it again.

Answer 1

You mean there is no single men that can kill your sexual curiosity? Many women have been trapped in relationships as the other woman because they thought it would be a one time thing and ended lasting for years. You don't know what you will do. Plus, if you get married one day there is such thing as reaping what you sow, kharma, what goes around comes around, or however you want to say it.

Answer 2

Well you know what you want to do. Your in the clear as far as destoying anything unless your married, though it sounds like your not. So Go for it!!! Your hot for him he wants you, go get some!!
Now he , like you said probably has had affairs. Sad Find out if these things are ok with his wife or if he is really cheating, easy conversation since you've been talkin' hot and heavy already. He is destroying his wife and belittling her and basically saying she is garbage. You knoew that this will be a fling and I guess he does to but he continues to do this and really just wants to screw anything, do you feel worse for it? DO you feel sorry for his wife? Maybe since he's done it before it's not like your the whole reason thier lives could be turned upside down, Heck dont even think about kids if there are any. CUz they arnt suffering not knowing their daddy who should be a hero is really just kinda scummy.
The main thing here is if he makes you wet and you want the bone, do it!

Answer 3

girl, i've been exactly where you are. only the married guy and i worked together. at first i thought, "you only get one life, so why not?" i met up with him, he told me to do some things and i did...i told him to kiss me...he said NO!! that boy was all take and no give. i felt so cheap and dirty. not to mention so guilty afterwards. we were friends before but afterwards, we couldn't even be friends because everytime i saw him he begged for a little more action. since then, he has gotten divorced and is now seeing someone else. also since then, i've gotten married. i love my husband more than anything in this world and am so ashamed of what i did. and i'm so afraid that some younger girl will turn his head and peak his interest...just like i did. bottom line, if i could change things, i would have stuck with my values and would have NEVER done that!

Answer 4

Don't do it!!!First stick to your morals,secondly this could be a situation that may come back to bit in the rear.Think about this for a moment; you and him at the gym hugging and his wife shows up out of nowhere; I mean I know you said it wont go any further but what if?Besides who's to say that you wont like it.

Answer 5

No you should stick with your morals. Just because he doesn't care doesn't mean you shouldn't either. The old saying what goes around comes around is very true. Even though it may be that he has cheated before and he hasn't got caught doesn't mean he never will. You should take into consideration are you prepared to handle what would happen if you decided to have this romp in the sack with this man and you just happen to be the one his wife catches him with. Who do you think the victim would be in that situation and I promise you it want be YOU!!!! Word of advice JUST SAY NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 6

Are you use to one night stands? If not what gives you the idea this will be one. You get in bed with him and if he is good and especially if you are there will be more and you know it.

It is never ever a good idea to get involved with a married man unless he is your husband. If you fall in love with him where will you be then. If he has had other affairs....and good chance he has.....there will be nothing about you that will make a difference. You get clingy and he will be gone.

Answer 7

I actually understand the excitement here, and things can become pretty intense...trust me i know, but how i look at it is a man like this, if he can cheat on his wife...he sure as hell can cheat on you, and you will be left out in the cold so to speak when he decides to go home to his wife, and when he does, you will drive yourself crazy with thoughts what he does to her in bed, and compare it in your head are you getting less than what she is getting.....why would you put yourself through the torment?.....there will be tears in the end....leave well alone.

Answer 8

No, no, and no!! Stay away, the guy is married and you should not get anywhere near him or chat with him. Follow your moral . Anyway , why are you interested in a man who is willing to cheat on the one he is supposed to love?

Answer 9

I'm going to get slammed here but whatev!
Do what you want. You didn't make a vow to her, he did and if it means nothing to him why should you care? Just know that it will not amount to anything and once a cheater always a cheater so if he did it to her, he will do it to you so don't try and get up in his grill about leaving her cause you don't want him for anything other then a romp.
The moral police are going to be on my butt but its not my job to police married men's actions... and if its not going to be you it will be someone else

Answer 10

NO. Are you crazy?? Karma will bite you in the @ss for doing something like that. Leave that guy alone. Just because he will cheat on his wife doesn't mean it has to be with you.