we get along well, I told my self I wouldn't play house and I am not ready for the commitment with him. I NEED money...and splitting bills would help me out alot!! I think about that everytime I gotta pay rent. YEs he take scare of his child.....but at the same time i NEED MONEY!
2006-11-07 07:47:09 · 19 answers · asked by abhammonds 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This is no reason to be moving back with him. Learn how to budget your money and show some pride in yourself. I guess you will be on here next week asking people to agree with you because you are unhappy living with him..........just do whatever you want but remember the only one who will suffer in the end is the child
2006-11-07 07:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know money can be rough on a single mother and I applaud you for trying to do your best but I don't think this is the best option for the child. Once you get ready to move out (AND YOU WILL) the child will go through a major change that will not be beneficial to him/her at all. Not to mention if you don't want to be there you will probably have fights. Please try to find another way to make ends meet. Have you considered getting another single Mom room-mate? You guys could help each other out.
2006-11-07 07:51:27 · answer #2 · answered by Stiletto ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to depend on a man for financial support. However, it'll be easier on your child to see his/her parents under one roof, but you gotta make sure the child doesn't grow up thinking you two will live together for ever. But hey, when money is tight you gotta do what you gotta do.
2006-11-07 08:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by Annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what u need to do to make it but on the other hand make sure on child is good enough until you get on your feet or you can ask to help you pay your own rent at a different place.. your pride is always worth more than money ,,, set a good example for your child
2006-11-07 08:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by MCKENZIE B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking if you should move in with him, I would say as long as you too can get along and there would be no fighting in front of your child. You will have to come to agreements on how to handle everything that you will face when living with someone.
2006-11-07 07:50:09 · answer #5 · answered by cNm114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you two get along in friendly way, why not as long as you are willing to give it a try... but, don't even think about getting involved with another man if you do. That would be taking advantage of him and that is wrong…
2006-11-07 07:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by string1dm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can live with him and things are okay, I say go ahead.. but when he brings a woman home dont be all up in his grill.. Same for him with you bringing a man home or something to that matter. There needs to be rules you both agree on before moving in!!!
2006-11-07 07:49:45 · answer #7 · answered by sshhmmee2000 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know EXACTLY what your talking about. I have the same thing going on (except we don't get along). I think if you get along well with him then let him move in but you need to make it clear that you dont want a relationship with him right now.
2006-11-07 07:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by biscuit 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if your committed enough to have a baby then you can definately handle living with someone that you get along with well. I think it is wrong to stay with him only because he has money but if you get along with him and he treats you and the baby well, then why not!
2006-11-07 07:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmmph! You moved out right? Wasn't there a reason? Moving back in should be seriously weighed against why you moved out. Money shouldn't be the only issue.
2006-11-07 07:49:24 · answer #10 · answered by jam_please 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋