I am in love w/ a person that is going to be serving some time. We both don't know how long yet, but is it worth waiting for or is it best to just move on. He doesn't want me to waste my life waiting for him, but I can't just stop loving him. Any suggestions on how to get through this would be very helpful. And please only serious responses only.
2006-11-07 07:36:47 · 7 answers · asked by witchywoman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Huh....you sure you're in love? It's going to be tough being alone while he serves time...and he seems aware of that fact. That's a big sacrifice--waiting for him I mean. If you chose that route--best of luck to you. But even if you don't decide to wait it out--you could still be supportive by communicating with him while he's incarcerated. Life with a convicted felon is not going to be easy after he serves time either--and your options will be limited because of it. Just be aware of the sacrifices required to remain with this person. It sounds like you'll have lots of time to make up your mind. Find a support group that can assist you. Good Luck
2006-11-07 07:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what he's in for! if it's somethiing serious then you better be carful, once you do something bad like that once it's super hard to go back and fix it all, he is bound to do it agasin unless he has a sturdy head on his shoulders!
if you really beleive that he's the one then ya wait 4 him, but dont jump to conclusions, think about it 4 a while, maybe a day or 2, is he really worth waiting 4 then more power to you and him, but if not, move on and although it'll be tough, you'll get through it and it'll pay off in the long run!
2006-11-07 07:45:02 · answer #2 · answered by campkid4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sure that you love him and he loves u the same...
my suggestion would be to wait life long.... finding someone really special/ a true soulmate is a lifetime gift... dont waste it just becuase u are parting for sometime..
its a world of technology u can always stay in touch
2006-11-07 07:39:34 · answer #3 · answered by snip3r_scorpion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-03 09:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know someone in your situation, and she decided to wait for him, she doesnt know if its going to be 8 or 18 years but she decided that he's the only person for her. She also knows its going to be hard but she says its worth it. I hope ive helped
2006-11-07 07:43:26 · answer #5 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what just write to him, dont lie to him either...i mean if its a couple of months its okay you can wait, but look at it this way you know for a fact that you wont be able to wait over a year...thats too long.....just THINK ABOUT YOUR HAPPINESS AND YOUR FUTURE!
2006-11-07 07:44:52 · answer #6 · answered by *NANCY* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him,wait for him,but it\'ll be painfully
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2006-11-07 07:44:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋