I have a feeling I'm with someone (man) not sure of his sexuality...what can I do?

Answer 1

This has got to be one of the hardest questions to answer. You are going to have to talk with him about this. I know it won't be easy but if you plan on getting serious with him you have to know if you need to be worried about a brother on the down low. If you aren't serious with him and you don't plan on getting any more serious, then don't say anything just tell him you want to be friends. If you want more though, this isn't something that's wise to ignore.

Answer 2

I'm guessing you are female and you're with a guy that you believe may be questioning his sexual preference?

I have an idea that may help you gauge this if you're concerned (and I would be for so many reasons)...

Find a way to mention the topic of 3 somes. Tell him you've thought about it in the past. Ask him if he'd ever consider it with you and another woman. Then ask him if he'd be open minded enough to consider it with another man (for your enjoyment, of course). You don't need to mean it, you never need to go through with it, but you will hear his answer and you can discuss it.

Don't be surprised if he says no to one or both suggestions. He will come back around and bring the subject up again later (an hour, a week, a month...) if he really was interested. In the meantime, you've given him a reason to open up to you about it.

Answer 3

Ouch! I mean, it would be rude to come out and say something. Because if he is, it would hurt his feelings, and if he isn't hie male ego will be bruised and he'll be pissed. I mean, could he just be "metro sexual"? My boyfriend is! And I made the mistake to say while he was dressing and in the mirror "You're worse then a girl. That's gay!" He didn't blow up, but he did say "I'm need you not to say that!"

Answer 4

ooooohhhh...... what a turn off! how are you still with him?