ive been with my boyfriend for 11 years and we want to spice up things in the bedroom anything and everything welcomed
2006-11-07 07:26:47 · 41 answers · asked by riasmurfblaze 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ice cubes in the mouth and bring another party with you ;)
2006-11-07 07:29:24 · answer #1 · answered by fivelighters 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you're only doing it in the bedroom then try somewhere else. Car park, stairwell, golf course, somewhere public and risky.
Alternatively: and this was quite nice, get some lace gloves and a feather boa. I picked these up from BHX airport on the way home to the mrs. A-bloody-mazing!
The Mrs also told me that she'd read men love watching a woman masturbate - unfortunately she won't oblige so I guess I'll have to keep taking cold showers....)
HTH
2006-11-07 08:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by charlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spicing things up in the bedroom is going to be different for everyone. Talk to each other about your deepest darkest fantasies. Just talking about them may spice things up. Be open minded and try the other persons fantasy. You may not think you would like it and after trying it you may find out it is something that you like.
2006-11-07 07:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by blb 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Adult toys
Role playing
Sex in locations that are not your usual
Sex at times of day that are not your usual
Go parking like when you were teenagers
Take a weekend trip away to a cabin or beach house and spend most of it naked
Share sexual fantasies with each other, even if you don't plan to act them out
Watch porn, and mimic what you see on the screen
Leave naughty notes for one another to find or call and let each other know (during the day) how hot you are for each other
Try new sexual positions, if you don't know any get a book or video
Those things ought to get you started....good luck!
2006-11-07 07:30:22 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh come on now!
You want someone to help you to move your furniture!
There must be a thousands of sites who you could have investigate for a great many ideas!!!!
As a guy, I can't think of anything beyond 'cliches' I'm afraid..... And although this won't help you 'in the bedroom' itself ....it's the spin ~
A friend told me about someone she knew who got his girlfriend to 'dress up' for an evening out. He collected her, 'dressed for the occasion,' in his pickup truck and drove her a drive-inn movie theatre where he reversed into a parking spot...!
He had her sit in the truck with her eyes closed and wait, He went to the rear of the truck removed the tarpaulin from the back of it, and then went and escorted her to the rear of the truck.
There, in the flatbed of the truck he seated her on a chair at a white linen clothed table, with candles and where they watched the film over a prepared dinner - with wine.
That tale might not help, but it might 'inspire you'....!
Best of luck.
Sash.
2006-11-07 07:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1 Dye your hair
2. have him shave your legs in a bubble bath environment
3 wear sexy lingerie
4 have him lie down and carress his body with your feet
5.try reverse cowgirl
6.do something that he tends to plead or beg for
7 experiment with cool whip or choclate syrup
8 give him a foor job
9. have him suck your toes
10. try anal
2006-11-07 07:40:19 · answer #6 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Vibrators, massage, female friendly pornography (check out ann summers), abstinence for a week, but tease each other with rude texts, phonecalls, massage and touch, deep kissing thenat the end of the week you'll be so desperate for each other it'll be fantastic
2006-11-07 07:32:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Instead of emailing yahoo - email him and tell him exactly (the ruder the better) what you're going to do to him when you get the chance - never fails for me x
2006-11-07 09:38:09 · answer #8 · answered by misbehave4me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been together for 11 years, you all need to make the committment and get married and that would be a great start.
2006-11-07 07:40:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Role playing is always fun. I personally like dominatricks. Its really fun and the guys really dig it when the female takes the part of the aggressor. I highly suggest this.
2006-11-07 07:48:28 · answer #10 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
many things in this world u can do honey, try doing "it" on the beach or in the back seat of a car in the moonlight, try anything that u havent ever done before with him!
2006-11-07 07:31:23 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋