Even if you spelled it out.. This guy is a jerk and won't get the picture that he lost me cause of his attitude. I even told him flat out I found some great male friends that could end up being more.. I don't want you anymore. I don't need your attitude anymore and he still won't back off..
2006-11-07 07:25:01 · 23 answers · asked by movu101779 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-11-07 07:25:32 · update #1
I have flat out told him I don't want him.. I have told him that he was a jerk. I have told him that we would never work out and will never be together. His reaction was "Yes we will, U'll See, I'll Prove it to you".
2006-11-07 07:33:29 · update #2
if he got lost for having an attitude to you, show him attitude !!, if he still doesn't get the picture of you guys being broken up, then there's no other way but to show him that your not intersted, actions mean more than words.
2006-11-07 07:29:39 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down in a quiet place all alone and explain yout fellings. Show him respect and be polite but just say you dont want a relationship with him. Dont raise your voice or get into an agruement as that will makes things worst. Showing a person respect is usually the best way.
If that doesn't work, get a male friend to go with you when you next speak to that guy and that should do the trick.
PS. i'm a guy but people are all the same.
2006-11-07 15:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by mosub1980 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all i can say if he wont get the message go get a restraining order aginst him so he will see u r telliing the truth and have the cops that deliver it tell him he is not allowed to call u or email u or even be at the same pleaces u r and if he is he will go to jail and then maybe he will get the message cause the longer u put it off the longer u will have trouble with this guy and he might cost u a really good relashionship
2006-11-07 15:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by ms dextre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to know the answer to that also. My BF, is a jerk too and I'm trying to get rid of him.... I've tried absolutely everything. Except sticking to what I really need to do.
I think if you totally tell him what's up and stick to it and tell him to leave you the F$&^% alone... and actually stand your ground he'll get the picture and go pshyco.. then hopefully move on. Atleast that's what mine would do. W
2006-11-07 15:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by Destinee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to put more details into your situation, like it seems that hes harrassing you. Is he someone from your work place? then go tell your boss cause this looks like sexual harrasment, If hes just some psycho out of the street and doesnt get the idea that you dont want to date him or give him a chance, then just file a restraining order from the police dept. the no more crazy guy stalking u unless he wants to go to prison
2006-11-07 15:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO out on a date with someone he dislikes in a place he and his friends hang out. (make sure if you aren't into your date that he knows its just for revenge) swoon over him and flirt like crazy. If he catches attitude or still doesn't get the picture get a restraining order. Nothing saids "Its Over" Then a 100 hundred foot space around you and cops called out if you come near.
2006-11-07 15:34:46 · answer #6 · answered by confuzioncity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a male friend of yours tell him nicely, but clearly, that you are not interested. Make sure your friend isn't a jerk, but that he lets this guy know that he is upsetting you. If he cares about you at all, he'll back off.
2006-11-07 15:27:47 · answer #7 · answered by Ginger Sling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i had a guy that was just like that. I thought that it was just an act because he was drunk but no he is really a jerk.....what i did was act like a straight out B*I*T*C*H with him, i would put him down infront of his friends slap him take **** from him and throw it clear across the room, i would even talk to other guys infront of him, and would tell them that he is stupid and would straight put him down....and well me acting that way with him he finally left me alone.....Good Luck
2006-11-07 15:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet Momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop answering the phone whenever he calls you eventually he'll get the picture. But you can't lead him to think that you guys are a couple are else he's going to keep brothering you
2006-11-07 15:29:36 · answer #9 · answered by This is just my opinion! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met a guy on a bus who, after three standard get-to-know-you questions, asked me if I had a boyfriend. He offered me his number the next day. I threw it out, and I've only seen him once since. Just ignore them and they'll go away.
2006-11-07 15:27:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋