how should i tell him how i feel??

Question

theres this guy ive been friends with for 3 years, and i like him more than a friend, how do i tell him my feelings w/out losing him as a friend, or feeling weird around him? im almost 16 and he is almost 17

Answer 1

just tell him

Answer 2

I know how you feel, its a hard situation because you have that doubt that once you tell him how you feel, he might start acting wierd and feeling ackward around you. I do not know your friend but there is always a posibility that he may or may not end your friendship based on what you are going to tell him. You can always ask him when you alone with him like if theres a chance he can see you more than just a friend instead of telling him that straight out that you like him

Answer 3

More then likely if you have been friends for three years and he hasn't made a move on you he probably sees you as just a friend. You can take a risk and tell him how you are feeling, but the results might not be what you are looking for. I guess you have to decided if you rather have him as a friend or gamble with telling him how you feel. Have you tried flirting with him? Does he respond to that? You also have to ask yourself if you can just be friends with him. If you like him and remain friends with him will you be able to move on and let someone else in your heart? You have to see if this relationship is even good for you. Tough choices. Good luck.

Answer 4

I would advise you to be careful, because if he does not feel the same way as you do you might lose him altogether. I would suggest you go to a quiet place together and bring the subject up at some time. Then watch your steps; better move slowly rather than hassle up or mix his feelings altogether. Do not expect a full romance from the beginning and do be prepared for a NO as well.

Good Luck

Answer 5

It will change things. If you want to keep them the way they are, don't say anything. I mean, if you are prepared for the changes that will occur, then go for it. But usually it has an effect. Now, I will say my best guy friend of like 5 years finally worked up the courage to tell me how he feels about me. I knew how he felt already, all his friends told me. After he said it I was like "Wow. Its true." How is our relationship now? I put it out of my mind (the confession). If I think about it, it makes me act funny around him. We're still cool, though. I don't know how he feels about his confession, though.

Answer 6

Just stay friends. You have alot of time to do any & everything else later. Maybe you'll grow up together fall happily in love, marry and have childern,live happily ever after. Wouldn't that be worth the wait?

Answer 7

Allow him to know what some of your hopes and dreams are.

Share with him, qualities he has, in a specific way, such as "I Really like a man that is.... and that is interested in..... and also which enjoys......!" And he already has all these qualities which you have just named.

Good question, and I'm sure you'll receive many creative answers.

Be open for suggestions. And Best of luck to you.

Answer 8

Be truthful. Figure out the way he feels. You can never go wrong with the truth. Even if it takes time for him to understand why and what you said and feel. The truth Straight up.

Answer 9

I think that if you are to shy to tell him in person write him a letter and let him know how you are feeling towards him....make sure that you let him know that you dont want to mess up your friendship.....just be toward to him about every thing

Answer 10

Just tell him and if he says no tell him u still want to be friends

Answer 11

TELL HIM, he might feel the same way!!! when you take risks you have a better chance of getting what u want!