He acts like he don't know what he wants in life and take this he's a older guy and I am way younger then he is
2006-11-07 07:00:44 · 8 answers · asked by MrsJazzieKey 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
and for all the smart comments keep em to yourself and age doesn't have crap to do with what people have in common this Im 21
2006-11-07 07:13:12 · update #1
Everynow and then a girl comes across one of these bad seeds. The best thing for you to do is to put your mind to something else. Go out with friends, pick up a new hobby, go to they gym or take a jog to clear your mind.
Sounds like you know yourself this guy is a waste of your time, so remain strong and don't fall into his games anymore. I know its ALOT easier said than done, but it's gotta be done if you don't want to be dragged along anymore.
I've been in a horrible mess w/my ex, it took me a long time to open my eyes and move on. But girl, I am sooo thankful I did it. I couldn't have done it without my friends and family to support me through the hard times. Surround yourself w/those you love and who love you. Make a list of pros and cons. Seeing it on paper will help you realize the facts: He's not worth your pain and anguish.
Don't count on a guy to bring happiness into your life (or anything else for that matter). Make YOURSELF happy. The rest will follow.
I wish you the best of luck! :)
2006-11-07 07:13:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's so funny that you write about this because my best friend has just recently gone through a similar situation. I think him being older has no significance with him knowing what he wants in life. A 5 year old can already know what path they want to take in their lives. I think you both may just need to have a sit down discussion about these matters. You need to let him know that him as well as the situation is causing you mental stress and that's not good. If he cares, he will try to do better.
2006-11-07 07:11:41 · answer #2 · answered by sws_classic_caramel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is older than you and he didn't know where he is stands...Do not loose your time with him. You are young and do not need a hazard next to you.What you need to do is enjoy your youth. You just said it; he is older than you...Look for another direction. If you stay with him it's going to be time that you really going to see the different on age and will be to late to back up. Get someone that share with you all the things that you like. He is older and it will be the time that you want to do something and he can't. That will stress you more than now.
2006-11-07 07:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by annie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I consider the others as he's there to maintain you and something of the scholars secure and not flirt with them as in case you desire to get decrease back at him then checklist him and get him fired, how previous are you besides? if 18 plus then you definately're criminal to do what you like yet while below then he deffently ought to be pronounced, how previous is that this guy? I recommend i won't be able to declare that age concerns by way of fact i dated somebody who replaced into 18 and that i'm 33 so its no longer easy of me to declare, yet that replaced into we had an on the spot bond and connection and he or she wasn't even in college, yet this guy is merely enjoying which includes your emotions and emotions, so my ultimate suggestion to you is checklist him and forget approximately him
2016-12-14 03:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone deserves to feel wanted and needed and loved. With absolutly no doubts. If your not getting this from him move on. Love doesn't cause stress or it shouldn't. It's a wonderful thing. Hold out for the real thing. your young it will happen. Believe your worth it and the rest will fall into place.
2006-11-07 07:25:56 · answer #5 · answered by GI 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mental stress ain.t good for you. Find someone your own age you don't need it a older man can also be very possesive since your younger.
2006-11-07 07:11:56 · answer #6 · answered by lizardlover42000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are willing to invest your time with this guy then ask him to get counseling. If he won't get help then end the relationship, put a period behind it and move on before you need professional help.
2006-11-07 07:05:31 · answer #7 · answered by Precious Gem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what can yous possibly have in common anyways? date someone your own age, they would make more sense.
2006-11-07 07:04:35 · answer #8 · answered by Jas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋