My friends niece had bridal shower from her sister. Fiance kicked up a storm because his side not invited. Sister then invited. She had to tell restaurant how many people. $25.00 per person. His family 20 people. On the day, he did not show nor did his family! The niece is still with her fiance.
2006-11-07 06:32:24 · 7 answers · asked by mich 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Yes, because if he is going to blow up every time he doesn't get his way, then what will happen next? will decide to start taking swings at her. Get her out of there.
2006-11-07 06:49:17 · answer #1 · answered by kittens_4029 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time for big time communication with the fiance. Sounds to me like that is what you guys are lacking. If his yelling is a recent developement, then he may have stressors of his own affecting his life--maybe things he hasn't shared with you because he believes that you have enough on your plate right now. The fact that your fiance doesn't like your son to be "drugged up" says that he cares. An ADHD child is much easier to handle when on medication, yet your fiance cares enough about the child to want to spare the child discomfort at the expense of his own. That tells me that he probably does love the two of you very much. Some men, when they are made to feel helpless by a situation (or series of situations) get very angry because of that very powerlessness and may take it out on the people they love. He also may be nervous about the wedding. You never know. I suggest having a sit down talk somewhere neutral such as a coffeehouse or restaurant in which you can get your feelings out (don't accuse!) and so can he. Communication is key here and the two of you have been to stressed out to do it properly. All couples face hurdles. Best of luck.
2016-05-22 08:03:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think ditching him is the right answer, but definitely some pre-marital counseling. A bridal shower is for the BRIDE, hence the name. Unless it was specifically stated that both bride and groom would be present, there was no need to invite both sides. (Although it really would have been polited to invite the mom of the groom and any sisters the groom was close to...after all they are all gonna be family in time).
Definitely go for some counseling before the wedding. That is not the proper way to handle that.
2006-11-07 06:35:57 · answer #3 · answered by bubb1e_gir1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His side should have been invited in the first place, the point is bringing the families together. But when she did go ahead and invite them, it was very rude to not show up. They were mad because they were not invited in the first place.. It should not start out this way it should be a happy time. As far as the couple, they need to work it out and I dont think i would throw away a whole relationship because of it. Maybe the bride can try and reimburse some of the lost cost, because of her fiance.
2006-11-07 06:43:09 · answer #4 · answered by TrueLibra 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
kitten_4029 hit it right on the head. What she's seeing is just the tip of the iceberg. He's exhibiting behavior that has gone way past selfish. His family should've been invited, but her sister made the error, not the bride to be. So, he and his whole family decide to punish them? She needs to run, not walk, run far far away!
2006-11-07 07:09:05 · answer #5 · answered by dct1218 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably doesn't need to break up with him over this, but it is an indication of his selfishness and pettiness. Definitely go for counselling.
2006-11-07 06:48:35 · answer #6 · answered by daisy519 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like they're made for each other.
2006-11-07 06:36:49 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋