2006-11-07 06:30:38 · 51 answers · asked by Lacey S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on what your interests are.
2006-11-07 06:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by the shadow knows 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Age becomes less and less important as you get older - because it's not really about AGE - it's about MATURITY and WISDOM. A 52 year old and a 59 year old are 7 years apart - but they are probably both quite mature and wise because of their life experience.
You are 22 - but what's important is whether or not you're a mature 22. There are many other factors involved in your "best interest" besides your ages. Is this man ever mean to you? Is he in debt? Does he still live with his parents? Is he divorced? Any kids? Does he have trouble talking about his goals in life? Are you in disagreement about where your lives would go in the future? (i.e. he wants to have a lot of money and no kids and you want to remain childless and live a bohemian lifestyle) Has he avoided introducing you to his friends and family?
If you answered "Yes" to any of these questions - it doesn't matter how old anybody is - this relationship is not in your best interest. If you answered "No" to all of them - there's a good chance it will work.
Best wishes!!
2006-11-07 06:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is just a number, especially if there is no illegal ages involved in the relationship. I think it depends on the place you each are in life- I mean, if you are still going through the whole college life thing and he is in a good job, it may not work- however, if you are both looking for the same things at this point of your lives, then sure! I think it would be a good thing. I think with an older man, he USUALLY will know how to treat you better than say a 20-23 year old. This is not ALWAYS the case of course.
-EA
2006-11-07 06:34:05 · answer #3 · answered by Earthy Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is not an issue, if he's a nice guy. Plus 22 and 29 is only 7 years and that is not a big difference. Think about it, when he's 59 you'll be 52, you're practically in the same age group.
2006-11-07 06:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by M M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating is a way of getting to know someone-7years can be a hurtle or a nothing. I have friends who are dear to me at 10yrs younger and 20yrs older, it is a matter of common interest. My DH is 4yrs younger than me which I always find amusing since I used to have a rule about only dating older men, but we have 15yrs and 3 kids as well as a business together. Dating is an opportunity not the final step. If you like him see what happens, if you don't - it ends there. Just keep it simple and don't over think it. Good Luck!
2006-11-07 06:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age difference of seven years isn't the issue. The issue is to make sure your views and goals of life are the same. If you do want marriage, and he doesn't, then thats a waste of time. There are many things to think about while dating anyone. Age isn't that important as long as the guy is 10 or more years older than you. Age does get important eventually because usually the older guys is just dating a younger girl to make his libido feel better.
2006-11-07 06:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by nmhflute 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You'll be fine. Just take things slowly. I honestly think a 22 yr old female is more like a 25 year old male in maturity. Having a guy a few years older may work to your benefit because he may be more about a relationship and not just relations.
2006-11-07 06:34:42 · answer #7 · answered by P. C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on your maturity level and his. Some 35 year olds act 15 and some 22 year olds act 40. If you like him go for it. Even though he's older it doesn't mean he isn't at the same place in his life that you are.
2006-11-07 06:34:33 · answer #8 · answered by Pirate Hooker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 22, you are no longer a girl, one would hope. Seeing as how you're an adult and a couple years out of your teens, then I don't see why not.
If you both have common ground, in regards to your goals, life situations, and interests, then sure, go for it. If he's more mature than you are, vastly further ahead in his career, wanting marriage/family soon (and you're not, or vice versa)... or any combination of those, it could be a doomed relationship.
2006-11-07 06:34:29 · answer #9 · answered by readysteadystop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with Smelly Foo. She nailed it when she said that he's probably more mature than men your own age. In all my years of dating, and believe me, I've been around the block, all of my men have been at least five years older sometimes more. They usually are more stable and have money to spend on you. At this stage in your life, have fun. Just don't jump into anything too serious too soon. I waited until I was 30 to get married and am so glad I did. You have to sow your wild oats before settling down. Trust me. It's worth it. I found the man of my dreams, and he's 11 years older than I am. We still have as much fun now as when we were dating. Good luck.
2006-11-07 06:58:22 · answer #10 · answered by Murray 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 23, and my husband is 28. Not exactly the same...but similar. I don't think age is all that important. Is he a good guy? Do you get along well? If so, then why not? He's probably alot more mature than the 22 year olds you know.
2006-11-07 06:32:32 · answer #11 · answered by smellyfoot ™ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋