I caught a girl flirting with me, and I called her out on it. She said she did not mean to, and we have been friends for years. I started to grow feelings, but now, she is even more secretive and openly flirty - playing footsies, touching me more, and glancing a lot at me. I kinda like her, but I consider her a good friend. I do not really want a relationship, but I am tempted. What should I do?
2006-11-07 06:23:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sort out your feelings first.
then act
2006-11-07 06:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Providing your not married or involved with a woman....Flirting is ok among friends too.
Unfortunately, some types of flirting can be tempting to go further.
So, only respond to the ones you feel you are comfortable with and respond with a smile, and ignore other's that make you feel uncomfortable, by ignoring that it did not happen. She will eventually catch on to what you except and don't except.
2006-11-07 14:39:09 · answer #2 · answered by sweetcitywoman2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There has to reason that temptation is there, reevaluate the situation, what would happen if your friendship turned into something more? you know most successful relationships you start out as friends. Have fun with it, things like this only happen a few time in your life
2006-11-07 14:27:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be happy she likes you !! i live with a woman that is nothing but mean hateful rude! she never kisses me just yells things that are insain! i'm with whores a killer anything hurtful. she thinks i'm trying to kill her most nights so she will not eat what ever i cook even know she can't. she's on s.s.i and hids knives hammers anything. so be happy that you have someone that cares! since i have lived like this for the past 4 years! yet i'm not able to move since my income will not let me! i have no friends and even my mom will not come over because she's so crazy! so thank-god for i have never had a woman do any of the things you wrote of!
2006-11-07 14:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by tommoore66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play it cool
because if youre not completely into her upon pursuing this, youre most likely going to lose a friendship.
2006-11-07 14:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first decide if you do or you do not want a relationship. If you do then go for it, and if you do not then you need to make this known to her. It is so obvious what she has in mind, she is just waiting on you to make a move. God bless
2006-11-07 14:25:50 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to ruin a friendship, and this outweighs your attraction to her, then you have to start thinking of her as a "buddy" and not in the other way.
2006-11-07 14:25:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have fun if your both mature and no deep feelings are concerned, like love, freinds with benefits is great fun.
2006-11-07 14:26:58 · answer #8 · answered by krissy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your friend you need to be honest and ask her to stop because you aren't interested in more than a friendship.
2006-11-07 14:26:20 · answer #9 · answered by twest_dgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this ones tuff, you can either try the dating thing and possibly ruin your friendship, or you could not date, stay friends, and possibly ruin your friendship from not being able to date her because you don't want to ruin your friendship.
2006-11-07 14:27:56 · answer #10 · answered by ksf122385 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋