ok well my boyfriend who u been for 2 months is suposibly sick. He usually does not go to school once a week and well yesturday he didnt come to school he had told me that he was sick. He always goes to partys and on sunday night he he told me he was going to go home. I called him and he didnt answer. He then texed me the next day im sick ive been throwing up all night. So last night around 6 he told me he went to the mall after coming out form the doctrs. Now since that he never texed me, called me, noting. He always rturn my calls and at least texes me. Even when he was sick. He didnt come to school today and i called him, texed him. Noting hews not responding. what should i do????? help need help. i need a plan on what to do , should i call o rnot call. becaus eif he is sick then i dont want him to think i dont care,. but hes beign really mean,
2006-11-07 06:18:53 · 27 answers · asked by rubikisses muuah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ignore him in the exact same way hes ignoring you. I find the best way to get through to stubborn people is to treat them exactly like they treat you.
So ignore him completely until he comes around 'in person' asking questions then be honest with him face to face.
2006-11-07 06:23:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's missing that much school, the officials should have, by now, been checking on his status. I know our school would have been, and I'm sure yours is no different. If he's just skipping, then the truancy officer will be paying him a visit. What about his parents, are they aware of where he is? I'm not sure I would be more concerned about his health than I would be concerned about you. I think you are chasing after the proverbial "bad apple". Remain friends if you wish, but I think I would make up my mind to just leave it at that. Look yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that you can do better for a boyfriend. Good luck!
2006-11-07 14:26:31 · answer #2 · answered by cowboys21angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has a drinking problem that's why he is always sick and can't get to school. Since you have only been with him two months, there may be alot about him you don't know. Missing school, but can party at night.. think about that one.
2006-11-07 14:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first does he live at home or in a dorm? Ask someone who he lives with, if he doesn't live with anyone ask one of his friends. and if you don't want to seem nosy, just casually ask one of them "Is so and so feeling any better? I Heard he was sick." You could even text him or call and leave a message saying that your sorry you haven't called lately, but you've been busy and were just wondering how he's doing. Don't seem to pushy. you'll find out soon enough what's going on.
2006-11-07 14:26:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is definalty another girl, hes is not sick he might of been throwing up from drinkin to much sunday and he prob was a little hung over but got better and went to the mall with the other girl who he already know or met at the party the night before. dump him before he dumps you.
2006-11-07 14:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by Doisa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell me, has he kissed you since you've been dating? I'm assuming he has, when was the last time? If he has been sick this whole time wouldn't you have caught what he has by now? I'd stop calling him, I think he's full of crap and doesn't want to go school.
2006-11-07 14:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need not to let this wreck your head. Either believe him or don't. Take action accordingly. All that will be achieved in this current situation is mind games and a whole lot of anxiety. This does not make for a pleasant and healthy relationship.
2006-11-07 14:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by l0bster_quadrille 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry to break it to you, but this doesnt sound like he is sick. you have to confront him before things get worse. just texting him might not work. go to his house and bring him soup and force him to come out with the truth. if you are afraid hes mean, he may not be worth it. if you care that much about a guy being sick, youll be able to find someone else if you have to
2006-11-07 14:22:00 · answer #8 · answered by Krystal 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that he is not really sick but maybe you should try to talk to him one more time before you make your decision. If he is sick be there for him if not move on there are other guys out there that don't act like that.
2006-11-07 14:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sweetie you need to let him go...why do want someone who's always sick? No seriously, it sounds like he's got something else going on, on the side you know? Dump Him, you can do better
2006-11-07 14:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋