why do men always picks the really slim girls? when theres lots of great bigger women out there.?

Question

when i look around men always pick the size 2's but someone who could be a better girlfriend doesnt get a look in because shes abit over weight. Why is it better to have someone whos looks better on your arm then have someone whos great on the inside.....

Answer 1

It depends on the guy but MY advice is....if they don't want you because of your weight, thank God! They would only treat you like **** or cheat on you...there are guys out there that don't care as much and do want to find a good personality...chances are, there is someone lurking around right now just waiting for you to stop caring so much about those other guys!

Answer 2

What makes you think the skinny girls are bad girl friends? Thin people can be nice too!! In fact they dont generally have the 'everyone hates me because I'm fat' chip on their shoulder. I personally like girls with a bit more meat on them (my girlfriend is a size 14) but I dont want someone who moans all the time about being over weight. YOUR the one who makes it an issue not men or skinny girls, thats just peoples taste!!

Answer 3

I hate to say this but thinner women are just more attractive, or more acturately, fat women are more unattractive. It sounds harsh but it's true. All this inner beauty stuff is fair enough, but you're only going to find that out once you've got to know someone, so men will be attracted to thinner women. If a guy tells you otherwise, he is either lying, or he has a fetish for that kind of thing. In the same way that women say penis size doesn't matter, we say your weight doesn't matter. I'm sure there are plently of guys who like larger ladies, but generally, they don't.

Answer 4

i have answered a otha question like dis, and ma answer is also simliar. not all men pick the slim girls. agreed dat about 60% of men will, but the 40% will not look at the weight or build. i personally like girls who are easy to get on with, make u feel like a friend, and about looks, looks aint everything. as long as she doesnt go around thinkin shes all good looking.. and it isnt betta to have someone who looks betta on your arm. the men who think dat are too self conscous.

Answer 5

I like a medium sized girl. Not fat but not a rail either. My reasoning is I have to bust but butt many times a week to stay healthy and I want a girl who cares about her body too. Besides that ones personality can really add or subtract pounds. I had all size girls and used to be quite a large man myself. Showing motivation and control makes a conifident person.

Answer 6

This is an unfortunate thing! I think primarily because women love with our hearts, men love with their eyes and men tend to not be as attracted to a larger woman (BBW as I call "us")- However, I have found that as men get older, they usually look more for a woman more suitable for them and someone that will be a good match, even if she isnt a size 2. Also, bigger women don't tend to be as outgoing or self confident as the skinny minis- and it usually radiates. HOWEVER, i have seen LOTS of skinny girls that dont radiate confidence because they arent as skinny as kate moss! I am in the same boat as you- trust me girlfriend!!

-EA

Answer 7

Some of the guys on here are complete pr*cks. Don't listen to them. It's not fair for us to group all men into one category. There are men out there who like women with a little meat on their bones, these are the guys who don't care about appearances, who aren't shallow, and probably have more than one brain cell left. Men enjoy a fantasy, and for some men, the pre or post-pregnancy Heidi Klum amay do it for them. I'm not a size 2 by any means, but my boyfriend loves all of me. He doesn't see the few extra pounds, he sees how much I love him, and how happy I make him, how much fun we have together and all the little ways I make him laugh. When you find the right guy, all those weight issues won't matter to either one of you.

Happy Guy Hunting!

Answer 8

do no longer do it. in case you ought to pay for it it is not gratifying by using fact it is not actual. you do no longer desire somebody pretending to love you merely because you're paying. somewhat, use a number of that funds to pass to a competent dermatologist. additionally, initiate an workout software, even it it is merely an afternoon stroll in the beginning; initiate ingesting healthily - decrease out snacks, white flour and oils, use a lot of fruit and drink a lot of water. you ought to start to be sure some consequences interior the burden branch in a pair of month. i'm saying this by using fact as quickly as you cope with the actual problems and start to experience greater useful approximately your self, your self belief will improve and you'd be greater captivating to the choice intercourse. additionally, because you seem to have a lot of loose time on your palms, why no longer get some pastimes, capture up on your examining, be taught to play an device. That way, you would be using your further time constructively and customarily recuperating on the completed product no longer merely the seems branch. draw close in there, somebody who likes you for your self will come alongside, merely initiate engaged on the problematical areas for now.

Answer 9

I am a lot overweight and have never had a problem with guys. I am due to marry for the second time next year and am very happy. My man thinks I am wonderful, I suppose its all in how you feel about yourself. Yes I would love to have a slim figure but its never going to happen so i accept who and what I am and make the best of it. I like myself and thats half the battle. My Kev is a very lucky man to have me!....just read that back and I sound so full of myself but I meant it in the nicest way possible. Being positive about oneselve is so important.

Answer 10

This doesn't apply to *all* men. I don't think a girl's weight makes any difference to her attractiveness, and I honestly think that larger women make better girlfriends.
On the other hand, fitness is important. You can have a large body and be fit, but also have a thin body and be very unfit. If someone either doesn't eat properly or doesn't excercise, they will not be very attractive.

Don't lose heart, appeareance doesn't rule everyone!