I'm not talking about someone who gets emotional in chick flicks, but someone who can talk about feelings and their emotions. Do girls genuinely like that or would they prefer a more macho guy?
2006-11-07 05:57:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes. remember, there is a difference between being Sensitive and being Masculine. people get confused all the time, trying to act "macho" to cover up sensitivity....
macho does not mean masculine. to me, masculine means Strong, Smart, Confident, Owns up to your decisions, Knows how to make good decisions, Does what it takes to take care of his woman, and Does what it takes to protect and love her. if that means he has to observe her feelings and be more "sensitive" or "open"... so be it.
a "feminine" guy is what u don't want to be.. someone who is Weak, Doesn't know how to make decisions, Has no backbone, Can't make strong smart decisions on his own, doesn't know how to take care of his family or friends or girlfriend...etc...that is someone i would not want to date. i'm not saying feminine means women don't know how to make good decisions, but a feminine man is not good because he should be Masculine. i hope this makes sense!
as long as u are Proud and Strong about what u are about as a man, u have nothing to worry about. being unsure will not help a woman trust your abilities and decisions
2006-11-07 06:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the woman. I think that more mature women want a guy that they can have an honest conversation with, which can include emotions and feelings. As long as you're not one of those overly emotional men that want to talk about their feelings all the time. I think if you can work in the macho with the emotional aspect as well, you got a good thing going on. Hope that helps
2006-11-07 06:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by bettedaviseyes79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ideal guy is "tough but sweet." Meaning: Tough? he stands up for himself and others, speaks his mind, doesn't feel sorry for himself all the time, is physically fit, and likes to be active. Sweet? he's not afraid of feelings (his own or other people's), shows care and concern for others (wait staff, his granny, you), is kind to animals, etc. Think of movie heroes that women swoon over: they are all tough but tender. Forget macho! The movie heroes men admire are not the same ones women go nuts over. How many women fantasized over the Terminator?
2006-11-07 06:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by BigCityGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-28 21:30:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a great question and even better answers. What I gather from reading the responses is that as a guy, you need to be sensitive to her feelings and needs, a.k.a. a good listener. But when it comes to your needs and feelings you better shut the f*!k up and keep that sh*t to yourself because they don't give a crap if you're feeling a little insecure right now.
2006-11-07 06:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by Agent69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
neither. A person should be able to express themselves and their feelings, but I don't like men going on and on about their emotions any more than I like a guy who refuses to admit he has any. Is it just me, or are men becoming overly emotional and wimpy these days?
2006-11-07 06:06:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like men that are humans. My husband a robot . If a man crys that means they are humans not at a drop of the hat but when the time calls for it. We like men that are open and care about what we feel.But not mama boys.
2006-11-07 06:03:22 · answer #7 · answered by martha g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most girls like a guy who is macho on the outside, but soft on the inside. they like guys who are preety much tuff, but once you get to know them, can open up to you and show you a sentitive side.
2006-11-07 06:05:33 · answer #8 · answered by spicyangel8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, I think they say they do, but then are more attracted to the macho rebel type guys.
2006-11-07 05:59:51 · answer #9 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A mix of both. At certain times they should be able to talk about their feelings, but other times, I like it if they keep things to themselves.
2006-11-07 06:10:43 · answer #10 · answered by Ahhh....Me Time 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋