He hides things behind my back like emailing other girls, talking to them on MySpace and I think talking to them over the phone. We live together and have been together for over a year.
2006-11-07 05:53:32 · 22 answers · asked by Monique G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We as men ONLY do what we think we can get away with.........
with that said, find the "right" time to talk to him (not right after sex!)
and tell himthat if it continues- he's gonna lose you......if he's smart: he'll stop.
good luck
2006-11-07 10:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by Damian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same issue with my bf. I asked him for his passwords and if he gave them up freely, figured he had nothing to hide but if he doesn't want to, then he's obviously up to something.
Ask him if these other girls are more interesting then you, if the answer is yes, move on. If the answer is no, tell him that you're right here and he should be talking with you and not them.
Hope it works out.
2006-11-07 05:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by Minouners 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your honnest with him, maybe tell him how you really feel.Tell him that you know what is going on and if those girls are really just your friends tell you more about them,then maybe you can learn to trust him and he will trust you ,tell you everything that you need to know. Tell him that you want to be respected if he wants your love to be true and all his let you know what is happening between you both..
from Abigail justa minor.....
2006-11-07 06:06:51 · answer #3 · answered by Abigail C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, one thing you can do is tell him bout the "do unto others as you would to yourself" philosophy... would he like it if you were doing the same? If he really cares he would listen up. Also, on his point of view, he may think he's not doing anything wrong. Maybe he's just talking and not pursuing/courting. Whatever you do make your feelings known and discuss it with him.
2006-11-07 06:32:10 · answer #4 · answered by cimpuazaj c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him out. no questions asked.
he will be like, WTF??! and u can say, if u wanna email and talk to other girls go ahead, but not at my place. and not with me. i'm not mad at you, but i don't want to live w/ u anymore if i can't TRUST YOU. and if he denies, tell him ur proof. if he gets angry, tell him u don't want a mean, angry boyfriend. someone who doesn't know how to compromise or be honest or make good decisions in dealing w/ problems togehter. whether or not he is cheating is not the problem.. the problem is He did not make sure you felt Safe and Secure..that is why u have suspicions. if he made sure to do Best for you, u would NEVER question him. tell him he needs to shape up or ship out.
2006-11-07 06:00:06 · answer #5 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him and if he wont then scare him a little and see if that works like telling him if he doesnt be honest then yalls relationship is over and if it seems he doesnt care then u need to leave him alone because u dont have anything if u dont have honesty and trust
2006-11-07 05:59:51 · answer #6 · answered by gurl_balla14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new one. He is obviously not true to you. Why would you want to be with someone who hides things like this from you???
2006-11-07 05:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him why he feels the need to hide these things from you. ask him if there is something he worries about from you that causes him to feel like he can't be straight with you.
and if you feel like this is consdered cheating on you, let him know that too. get it all out in the open.
2006-11-07 05:56:00 · answer #8 · answered by smartkid37138 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was wondering the same thing, I am having the same problem now, you can't though you can't make a person be honest
2006-11-07 05:57:43 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him out of myspace lots of drama there and talk to him
2006-11-07 05:58:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋