ok i really love my friend and its like were going out but not really but i ask her out and she says that its not the right time yet... well shes been saying that for 3 years... well shes been getting kinda close and doing stuff that kinda says i wanna have sex with you... well i just dont know how to ask her and if i should ask her cuz if im mistaking these signals it could ruin our friendship... thanks guys
2006-11-07 05:51:18 · 5 answers · asked by jonbeard1991 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
mistaking signals can lead to deep regrets.
ask her. ask her to be honest with you about what's going on in her head and her heart about your relationship/friendship.
2006-11-07 05:54:37 · answer #1 · answered by smartkid37138 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, never do ANYTHING that could hurt your friendship, because that will hurt more than everything else. Even if she isn't going out with you, at least she's still there. Second of all, you shouldn't be trying to have sex before you're married anyway!! Its wrong, and after your married you'll be alot more mature and ready for it, so ask her about her feeling for you, and if she doesn't like you, then just back away slowly. But like i said, don't end the friendship, cause that'll hurt more. And if you really do like/love her, then you wouldn't want to hurt her by being mad at her or going away completely.
2006-11-07 13:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by Sam-Wise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys should sit down and talk about it, because it would be a shame to loose a friend that you have had for over three years. Don't you agree?
2006-11-07 13:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes been sayin that 4 3 years she dont want u maybe all she wants is sex!!!!!!
2006-11-07 13:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play it cool and wait... If she isn't ready to have a relationship after all this time than casually date until than...
2006-11-07 13:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋