he told me he loved me over and over and for some stupid reason i took it all in and thought it was all true! he was always getting high in the park and after he was all angry for no reason what so ever. but then he always apologised after and i took it all in and this kept hapening untill he moved away and now im all alone. but for some stupid reason i still love him and this is no joke because when he was not high he was so nice to me and was always there he always listened to my boring problems, he was always comforting me when i was upset and now hes gone and i real really love him and miss him but my friends keep telling me he will always be the same! i hate the feeling of missing him and i am not just mekin it up that i love him. i really do!
x...X...x 14yr old gurl UK x...X...x
2006-11-07 05:50:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's infatuation sweetie...and you believed him because you wanted to...it wasn't a healthy relationship and you will be able to move on with your life soon...think of being with someone healthy and nice all the time, not just when he's high...there are groovy guys out there...don't miss out on them!
2006-11-07 05:53:19 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure u did love him.. but that doesn't change the fact that he was BAD for you. =T. think of it this way.. he chose his drugs, his lifestyle, and took off, w/o even THINKING how it would affect you. i'm sure he cared for you too, but is that enough if he doesn't know how to Treat you w/ respect , and take care of you? hardly the type of man you want to Marry..... u just have to accept him AS IS and stop trying to "force" him into some kind of mold that you have of a perfect guy. u think he Can be great, but truth is he just doesn't choose to be..and tha'ts not what a 14 year old girl needs right now! u need to focus on school, family, friends, and activities~~ u have plenty of time to find a steady guy and settle down later.. right now, work on your life, ur happiness, and u will be able to Pick and Choose what kind of guy u need and want, instead of pining away over someone who left!!! u deserve better right? ur a good, nice girl right? u were good to him right? then u deserve a Good guy! :) don't worry.... try hard to throw urself into more activities and u will see that life is more than just a boy.. it's EVERYTHING, and it should fit together like a puzzle. one day u will find a guy that fits into ur life really easily, and it makes such a difference. ur friends and family will love him, and u wont' have as much hardships to face... good luck :)
2006-11-07 13:55:44 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r by yourself saying "by a stupid reason" u still love him...means u know wat the truth is but u dont wan2 digest it..don worry am going thro the same thing..nothing is in our hands really..all i wud like to share wit u is that just remember all the good moments that u spent with him n consider yourself lucky for receiving all that love..but at the same time u hav a bright future ahead..who noes who may enter ur life n keep u happy..i always remember these words..so i shall share them wit u too...
watching u walk out of my life has not made me bitter or cynical about love...just that it has made me think that if i wanted so much to be with the wrong person then how wonderful life will be when the right one walks along...
2006-11-07 13:58:48 · answer #3 · answered by purple_spark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 14? get over it, it's not drugs he was just an a$$. my bf gets high every day and he has never been mean and has always lovedand cared for me. your man is the type wh doesnt care just wants what will be there till he finds something new.
2006-11-07 13:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK it's because you are a femmy fan is why you should be down with the clown whoop whoop.
2006-11-07 13:55:23 · answer #5 · answered by juggalette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You r high!! a boy addict!! You still want it just becos you feel good even when you know it will hurt you.
2006-11-07 13:55:02 · answer #6 · answered by abcde_s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess your just naturally gullbile, some people have diifferent things about them they cant help. I myself cant help irrestably gorgoeous and charming.
2006-11-07 13:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by dean v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and get his number and give him a call it cant hurt good luck
2006-11-07 13:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋