English Deutsch Français Italiano Español Português 繁體中文 Bahasa Indonesia Tiếng Việt ภาษาไทย
All categories

I'm 13, my breasts are a bit more developed than those of most girls my age. My mom worries a lot about me and my health and makes me wear bras like in this site http://www.anita.com/de/en/0,1,104,1478,39236__products-detail.htm I don't like it, it has 4 hooks in the back and makes me sweat. But my mom was firm. I did everything to talk her out of those bras, even fought her sometimes but didn't succeed. I gave up fighting, after all she's a wonderful mom and I don't want to damage our relationship, though I think she goes overboard and this makes me mad. So, I've been wearing those bras just like she told me.
But I envy those girls who go braless. Her breasts are free and mine under those bras. Ok, I know mom makes me wear them out f love, but I really gota wear them except in bed and when I take a shower. It's her law. How can I get used to them? Sometimes I think about taking them off when she's not around, but I promised her I'll never do this.

2006-11-07 04:50:23 · 13 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Family & Relationships Family

13 answers

In the begining each one of us feel uncomfortable but gradually u'll get used to it. Just stop thinking about it all the time....take ur mind off it.
Fact is that bra keeps u in shape....so wear it.
Ur mama loves u that's why she wants u to wear it.....she is not punishing u.

2006-11-07 04:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by KK 2 · 0 1

Ok, this is a very weird question and I dont know if its a joke, but I will answer it anyway.

I know that you promised her that you wouldnt take it off, but if you just arent that comfotable in them, MY GOSH! Youre 13 which means that you're prolly in High School. I think you should either buy one, or if you can't get a friend to give you one. I would change at school. I know that it's like lying, but some lies, like this one, don't hurt.

I remember that my mom wouldnt let me shave my legs. People would make fun of me and it wasnt til like Sophmore Year that I did. So I know how u must feel, altho it's not that bad for you.

Other option, it's to just talk to her. Just have a heart to heart conversation. Even better, print out everything that you just wrote and show her. I think that would be perfect! It should work and I guarantee that it will draw SOME answer out.

Good Luck :D

2006-11-07 12:57:57 · answer #2 · answered by Boricua 2 · 0 0

Ask her to take you to Penny's or Mervny's to look at teen bras, try some on and see which is best suited for you. If my likes the bra you are wearing let her wear it. It probably is not the right type for you in the first place. She should have known better then by something like that off the internet before having you try it on first.

2006-11-07 12:59:20 · answer #3 · answered by Angell 6 · 0 0

Perhaps you should make another suggestion. If your mother thinks you simply want to go around braless, which she clearly thinks would be indecent, she's never going to agree with you. Maybe you should tell her that you think a sports bra would be more comfortable, or that this bra makes you feel hot and uncomfortable, and suggest going to the store to look for a new one. Usually moms are not to set on making their kids uncomfortable. (if she agrees, don't pickout a sexy or slinky bra, you'll lose her for good then!)

2006-11-07 12:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by Whitney R 2 · 0 1

i have very large breasts. I hated wearing them when i was a teenager too. now my breasts sag and that hurts worse. I now can't stand not wearing a bra and had i wore a good bra they wouldn't sag as badly. Breast need support and giving them the proper support makes you look like a clean well kept person not sagging down and not caring. A bra needs to keep them up and in place. Eventually you'll get used to them. I wear underwires and now if its not that I can tell and I search for a new underwire to replace it

2006-11-07 12:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by Franchesca 2 · 0 1

ok seriously save ur lunch money and buy yourself a lane bryant bra i mean those bras are for old people whos tittys sag lol lol lol jp had to slip a joke in there but really just let your mom know that they make you sweat and they make bras for big breasted folk like yourself lol so do what you have to do or you will be stuck wearing those grandma bras till you move out lol

2006-11-07 12:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by Jay B. 3 · 0 1

Heres an idea...dont wear a bra. It will make you popular with the guys. Just what your mother wanted!

2006-11-07 12:54:18 · answer #7 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0 1

i know how you feel i had to wear them at age 9 ask your mom if you can use sport bras.

2006-11-07 13:24:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Oh my god.
Don't wear it at all. No thirteen year old needs that. That must be so uncomfortable! Just don't wear it. Refuse. Buy your own. Those are for grandmothers, not teenagers.

2006-11-07 14:13:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

if you get an allowance then you are going to have to save up your money to get your own bras. instead of going to target or walmart for them, try a women's specialty store like lane bryant or new york and company (depending on where you are).

2006-11-07 12:55:02 · answer #10 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0 1

fedest.com, questions and answers