If your partner asked if you wanted to try different partners,what would your reaction be?
2006-11-07 04:42:47 · 40 answers · asked by Pardon Moi? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
id say you only live once why not
2006-11-08 02:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not only say NO but HELL NO!
While it may be a turn on for me to have a different partner it would mean so would she. Nope!
Swinging does only one thing...makes a bad relationship even worse. Some will tell you it is the other way around.
Think about it. If you have to have other people to have fun then why would you need each other?
2006-11-07 04:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are just seeing this person, as in "not emotionally attached", then go for it but only if you want to. BUT if you are in love with your partner don't do it. You may think it's pretty cool at first but you will regret it after it is done and over and always hold it against him and wondering and probably will never get over it.
2006-11-07 04:49:30 · answer #3 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No swapping & only girls can play with us ... lol ... I wouldn't mind doing it that way ... swinging can get you in a lot of trouble if you don't know what you're doing ... lots and lots of strange people out there ... if he truly wanted us to try different partners then I would really have to think about it ... in the back of my mind I would love to see him with another girl ... only because I know I'll be joining in sooner or later ... but as far as me with another man - I don't think so ... !
2006-11-07 04:50:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u want to know what my reactions was here u go. i was like omg he isnt satisfied with what he has but needless to say i unfortunately did this for him and now i am going through a divorce with the same man he decided to be with the girl from the other couple because i wasnt cool with it it killed me seeing him with someone else. but she on the other hand was cool with it and that is the kind of relationship he was into i think if u are in love with a person that should be it but of course that is my opinion. so if i was asked now i would say honey where are the divorce papers im not doing this. i hope this helps.
2006-11-07 04:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by nuzzihuzzi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would tell him "Don't let the door hit ya where the Good lord split ya"
Honey, if he's wanting you to be with someone else while he is doing someone else that is not healthy.
It's going to mess with your mentally, spiritually and possibly physically if you contract and STD.
Don't do it, I once thought of it withm y husband and mentioned it to him and he freaked out saying that he only wanted me and that it's not about sex. You can have sex with anyone but once you're in a relationship you make love.
Good Luck
2006-11-07 04:48:28 · answer #6 · answered by Ms.BusyBody 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sexually liberal.
Takes a special couple for this to work. Most don't.
Unless you are like working in the porno field or politics not likely.
It takes a certain kind of detachement.
Most women I've married and dated arn't like that, though I have a past history for that propensity.
Even though I could have. I'd never ask.
In fact my late wife ask me once. I told her I could prolly handle it. but I didn't think she could... (She seemed quite releived with that answer. !?!)
I think you got some bigger problems to worry about.
2006-11-07 04:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by Kaustaub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably means the attraction is fast fading. Encounters no longer excites him and he is desperately looking for alternatives that would re ignite the passions of yesterday. I would reassess the relationship and my feelings and act accordingly.
On first glance, its like sliding down an abyss with nothing to stop me. so Its probable I'd sever the relationship.
2006-11-08 00:42:16 · answer #8 · answered by McDreamy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd think it may very well be time to move on. A threesome is one thing, but swinging . . I don't think I've reached that point of sexual exploration yet (Only God knows if I ever will).
Hope that helped
2006-11-07 04:46:14 · answer #9 · answered by sassedangel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"what the hell is wrong with you?!!" if my boyfriend found that kink satisfying unfortunantly the relationship would have to end beacause even if they agree to let it go it will always be in the back of their heads and it will always be something they desire and more than likely they'll hate you for stopping them
2006-11-07 04:48:03 · answer #10 · answered by desireddisease15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would make me take a step back and evaluate our relationship. I would not agree to it! I would probably be offended enough by it to end the relationship!
2006-11-07 04:47:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋