but we hav not made ne effort n tryin 2 get back 2gether. wat should i do? should i tell him that i still luv him or what? help me.
2006-11-07 04:38:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel you should do what your heart tells you to do. I am in the same situation, kinda, and mine makes Young and the Restless look like Sesame Street. I would make sure that he still has the same feelings for you and if he REALLY does love you, and you REALLY do love him, give it another chance. Ya never know, it just might work this time. Best Wishes to you, Sharon
2006-11-07 06:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by lilsis3070 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That question can only be answered by YOU!!! If you love someone of course your gonna try but the thing you have to ask yourself is why is he an ex to begin with you can love someone and them love you back but be completely the wrong people for one another !! Why did you break up to begin with the burning question and of course you didn't mention it so we cant really give you advise on this situation we don't know all the facts!! All I can say is you know what you really need to do. Love is worth walking a million miles for most people think its ez to replace and that's def not the case if it was that ez people would not spend there whole lives searching for it and some very unlucky ones never find it !!! If it is not a case where he cheated or is abusive to you or vise versa case face it woman can be just as bad as men then I say give it a try whats the worse thing that can happen ?It don't work so you move on and try your hand elsewhere but if it does then you may have the best thing you ever could have!And if you don't at least try then you may be giving up the best thing to ever possibly happen to you!! I know I'm raising more questions here than answers but you didn't give much to go by just we love one another so the answer must come from you because you are the only one who knows whats best FOR YOU!!!! Good luck to you Hun I hope things work out for the best!! Brightest Blessings..
Witchy
2006-11-07 06:11:18 · answer #2 · answered by witchy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's almost being in love with your ex-husband while he is out and living with someone else, but still says I love you. If he's with someone? Not sure, remain friends, maybe you'll date again down the road. If he's not, maybe put forth the effort if you both think it's worth it. Surround yourself with friends and family to help ease the feelings. Flirting is okay I guess, but you 2 should talk and see what you want....good luck
2006-11-07 07:44:31 · answer #3 · answered by Psycho 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to think for yourself what do u want. If you really loved him then you would have made effort to get back together. So the point is.. may be you dont love him after all. You may be attracted to him thats all. But in case you figure that you really love him then.. go for it.. there is no shame in taking the blame when you are in love... ask him what his thoughts are about you guys together.. if he is giving you any positive vibes then... you need to take a step further otherwise its better to back off to avoid any further heart aches...hope this helps...
2006-11-07 09:51:12 · answer #4 · answered by teetlie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to answer this is to ask your self if it is worth it to see him again because if the both of you or one of you have changed than it may go down in flames. Though if you can believe in love and live through break up then give it a shot. If not than stay as friends. It would be in your best interest that way.
2006-11-07 04:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by darkangelquarantine7410 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two had problems when you were together then you guys are better off as friends.But you could also give it another try. Probably you two needed to break-up so both of you could notice tat you two really do love each other.If after trying the samething happens again, then don't try again. This will just cause more pain and lead both of you to hate each other. It's better to love each other while being separated then hating each other while being together.
2006-11-07 08:28:03 · answer #6 · answered by Roxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you should remember why you broke up in the first place. And if it seems like a workable problem, then tell him you want to give it another go and see if he's willing to work on it as well. It takes two and just having feelings isn't enough.
2006-11-07 07:16:13 · answer #7 · answered by acholtz@verizon.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your still in luv with him, don't forget why you broke up in the first place. You can *** here and stay with us for a few days and you will forget you ever knew him. We are only a few hours away.
2006-11-07 09:23:03 · answer #8 · answered by muffun04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u still feel like that i suggest that u do tell him that u r in luv with him and want to get back together with him
2006-11-07 04:40:49 · answer #9 · answered by Manisha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is ok, but you saying you still love him might make him think your chasing him. He will eventually move on (or) better yet tell you he is still in love with you. I hope it's the later, if that's what (you) want......Remember always, listen to you heart, like the girl above me said.
2006-11-07 04:49:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋