I come from a broken home. Maybe im just young but Im trying to find the point in finding love and marraige when its sooo accepted today to cheat. Most marraiges today end in divorce. I just dont see the point in putting sooo much effort in trying to find true love when she is most likely to cheat on me.
2006-11-07 04:36:36 · 18 answers · asked by Brian T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you might find one who wont cheat on you. That would be worth it.
2006-11-07 04:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a bad attitude to have. I do not believe that it is accepted by all people to cheat. I have never cheated and never will! I know that when you find true love, you won't question it. Yes, you do take a chance on getting hurt, but look at all the things you get in return by taking that chance: a best friend, a lover, a confidant, a partner, a soul-mate!
2006-11-07 12:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by charbar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheer up, just beacuse you came from a broken home, does not mean that you have to continue the cycle. My husbands father skipped out on him when he was 2. Never wanted to see him, and he was beaten by his mothers new husband. But guess what, he is the most wonderful husband and father I could have ever wanted. He made up his mind that he would never let his children feel like he did. It is up to you to break that pattern.. You deserve to find true love and trust. I hope the best for you. Please don't give up. God made someone just for YOU.
2006-11-07 12:42:36 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. SmartyPants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is something that you must realize and that is that no woman is the same. There are very few just like men that will treat you the way that you want to be treated, it's just that you boys are too SHALLOW to notice it. That all girls cheat? That can go the same direction for guys, but you know that not ALL cheat. There's that special 1% that doesnt, and that is committed.
2006-11-07 12:40:23 · answer #4 · answered by Stefy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the point?, Interesting question. As many have said above so many come from broken homes and not to sound like a broken record I did as well. I was conceived on a weekend fling my mother had going to New York to meet up with my
Dad to try to get their marriage back together all she got out of that was me. And my father never laid eyes on me; he died when I was 5 never having the chance to meet him. I was one of 6 and I watched my older siblings go out in the world and end up with the same problems my mother had… I told myself I would be different and I was. I knew what kind of life I did not want, so I set out to try to figure out what kind of life I did want. And I can say after 26 years of marriage and 4 kids later I have found that life and IF YOU set your mind in the right direction you will as well. Do not dwell on what you grew up with, instead set your mind on what it is you want and go find it. True love is really out there. I am sorry to those that have not managed to find it, for I do believe in my heart of hearts it is out there and I am living proof. Best of luck to you has you search for your dreams and enjoy life as you see them come true!!
2006-11-07 12:57:06 · answer #5 · answered by Karen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the whole world is going to trash, and people are becoming more and more stupid everyday. but dont ever give up on anything like love! i almost did having my heart broken so many time and my parents getting divorced but then when i gave up i found some1 so speacial to me and im happy i never fully gave up! we have been together for 3 years and i know you have some1 out there for you :)
just S-M-I-L-E
2006-11-07 12:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont try and search for love, just wait for it to come to you. When that right one comes, you will know. I can understand you being afraid of her cheating on you, becuz of course, the world is kinda messed up these days. I would tell you to just wait for it to come to you, becuz searching for it, will have you running into some crazy mofos over and over again.
2006-11-07 12:45:10 · answer #7 · answered by yagurlbubblez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all people cheat I never have cheated on someone in my life, but maybe you are right because I thought I had true love and my husband kissed another girl
2006-11-07 12:39:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are generalizing too much.
I too come from a broken home (Hell, most of us do) and what I learned from it was what NOT to do in a marriage. Everyone takes what happens to them growing up differently. We can either learn from our parents mistakes, or repeat them.
2006-11-07 12:39:31 · answer #9 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely if you look for love you won't find it. Love finds you. You should never give up on love.
2006-11-07 12:42:02 · answer #10 · answered by Cecilia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋