Ok a guy who has never had anything close to a GF in his life decided he is gonna get one in a summer camp. He goes for the ugliest chick in camp just to get laid and makes it queit clear to her that its a hump and dump situation. Or maybe she interpreted him wrong. Anyway she ignores it and after he has sex with her she wants more. He tells her he had enough and wants to go to bed since not getting enough sleep might make him have sick in the morning. She keeps him up all night till he pushes her and throws her out of the room. For the rest of camp she tells him she is pregnant with his kid and will press charges for pushing her. A few more months she sends his emails and then finally stops. His friend tells him she was never pregnant cause he was in another camp with her after this incident. So my question is: Who is to blame here. The guy or the girl.
2006-11-07 04:33:46 · 14 answers · asked by RT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To blame for what?
The guy should have been clearer about what all was going on. If she didn't understand, he wasn't clear enough. On the other hand, the girl should have just let it drop once she realized they weren't going to be together.
2006-11-07 04:38:07 · answer #1 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
interesting scenario. Sounds like they are both immature and need some life lessons. I think the girl is more at fault here for blowing it out of proportion. She should consider herself lucky to actually get laid assuming the guy isnt ugly as well. And no need to hide behind someone else just admit to being the guy or the girl cause I know u are one of them
2006-11-07 12:43:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, the scum who had sex with the girl is to blame here. Even though he made it clear, he is wrong to seek out someone he deems less attractive to have sex with just to get laid. Oh, and just food for thought here, if he has to pick out an ugly chick just to get laid, then sweetie, he isn't a prize either. Please let him know that.
2006-11-07 12:37:23 · answer #3 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's what happens when you bone someone before taking the time to learn if they are psycho or not. They both are, but the guy more for not keeping it in his pants.
2006-11-07 12:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by Miami Lilly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It usually takes TWO to dance. So I would say you're both at fault, and took what you each wanted of each other.
2006-11-07 12:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy. You can't play with a girl's feelings like that.
2006-11-07 12:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
both...this scenario sounds completely immature. A condom could have prevented the dramas among other things
2006-11-07 12:38:06 · answer #7 · answered by tonaloha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, both, sort of... but i say it's mainly the guys fault for not knowing that she was going to go crazy on him... they are both clearly immature and neither one need to be having sex until they can understand the concequences.
2006-11-07 12:37:07 · answer #8 · answered by ooh baby 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say it is his fault because he put himself in that situation and has to sleep in the bed that he made
2006-11-07 12:36:48 · answer #9 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They're both to blame in this situation.
2006-11-07 12:48:32 · answer #10 · answered by Evelyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋