i like this boy named sam. I told him that i liked him at homecoming and he didn't say anything but smiled and then we just held hand after. Then at school it got awkward after the homecoming dance. We would talk but not as much as i would have thought(since we did go to the dance and he told my friend that he really liked me).I asked one of his friends(jack) to ask him about the situation. Sam told jack that he felt pressured.I was upset.A week past and then on the day of halloween he put his arm around me and then we held hands.The day after nothing happened. we talked and laughed as usual but he never held my hand like the day of halloween.He didn't give me any explanation of why he did that. This week i have had the URGE to just go up to him and ask him if he likes me. it looks like he likes me cause he doesn't really treat others like that.if his answers no to my question because he doesn't want a gf i don't want him to stop having feelings for me.i want him to still like me.
2006-11-07 04:09:31 · 5 answers · asked by Lilly L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
slow down cowgirl!!!...don't force the issue...looks like you are going to get what you want IF and this is a very big if...IF you let him drive the train for now....let him chase you a bit...don't be coy..but down run straight at him every time he is around...let him come after you...it will work out....please take my advice otherwise...HEARTACHE!!!!!
2006-11-07 04:14:27 · answer #1 · answered by Tikcus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get strung along! Make sure that he is not just trying to get "power" established by making you eager for him. If he's got him arm around you one second, then acting kina distant the next, he's playing a game. Make sure he has real feelings for you, you can tell when someone is being honest or not!
2006-11-07 12:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the thing with men... to catch them you have to let them chase you.
Back off and don't make yourself so needy and available. Start having fun with other people. Really have fun, not just fake it. Don't go out of your way to be around him, but don't shun him either. Be nice and be friendly, but don't fall to the floor and hold onto his leg. If he likes you he will come closer and start being more of a "boyfriend".
2006-11-07 12:17:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe u should just flirt with him and see how things go. You probably put him on the spot. Maybe thats the reason why he stopped talking to you as much. It could be nervousness now or now that he knows u like him he might not know what to say to you.
2006-11-07 12:12:50 · answer #4 · answered by iluvashtonkutcher676 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...let it rest
2006-11-07 12:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋