Ok I am expecting a big turnout of answers!!!! Ok im a 19 year old male, and there is this gorgoues young lady that works at Chili's app. 10 minutes away from my house, I have been there 3 times, and every time I go in there one of the servers ( about an 18-19 year old young lady, gives me this quick glance, it seems as if she really likes me, and I catch her looking at me all the time, and I really like her. The problem: They do not wear name tags, so I don't know her name, and without her name I cant start a conversation, and i dont know if it is a good idea to pull her aside and just outright ask her her name. Im wondering what is the best way to get her attention big time! I thought about a little note in a tip, but some people say talk to her.
2006-11-07 03:59:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why don't you ask your waitress or waiter what her name is and find out if she is dating someone.....then you will know a little something about her to know how you should proceed......if you are asking a waitress and not a waiter, she will definitely go back and tell her that you were asking about her!!!!! the man might but then again might not (hard to tell what men would do) but a woman will definitely tell her!!!!!
2006-11-07 04:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by polarbaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.
Well... I was a server and if some guy left me a note I would think he was a NUT! It would also make for an awkward situation the next time you were in the restaurant.
If you are in the restaurant.... why wouldn't you get off you chair and make a QUICK conversation with her? Servers are 'extremely' busy, and don't have time for chit chat... but you could introduce yourself, ask her name, tell her you don't want to keep her long because you know how busy she is..... ask her where she is going after work (be very casual)... and maybe you would see her there. That you would like to buy her a drink!
Most restaurant workers go out for a drink after work.
I think that should do the job!
GO FOR IT and have fun!!!
2006-11-07 12:07:04 · answer #2 · answered by cheesytoast 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO HER!!!!
That is the best way to break the ice. Be yourself and tell her that you're attracted to her, would like to get to know her, then let the conversation go from there. She has two options; yes and no.
If yes: You're in
If no: At least you tried and at least you know to leave her alone and find another gorgeous young lady.
2006-11-07 12:17:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to her and say that you can't take a girl out top dinner if you dont know her name
2006-11-07 12:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by Brian T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a child. Introduce yourself, and ask her for her name.
2006-11-07 12:02:11 · answer #5 · answered by Jack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use an ice pick.
2006-11-07 12:07:51 · answer #6 · answered by ndtaya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋